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Going through a very bad break up ?

so it all started befor 4 monthes an iwas realy deeply in love with thes guy but not any more just befor 2 weeks he asked me to stop all of thes an he said that he feel like he is wasting his time in realtion ship that won,t worke i kinda under stand what he means becuz it,s along distance relationship … am realy sad an hurt an ifeel like am totally alone i barricade my self at home dont wanna go out an dont wanna do nothing refuse to go out of the bed ifeel so sick the only thing ido is answreing the phone hoping that it may be him callin an when idescover that it,s not the emotional roller coaster cycle beggins all over again please help me cuz istarted to feel numb and am turning into zombie ..any tips?
thank u

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1 year, 1 month ago (24 minutes after post)

im in the same situation. Just give it up. For yourself, let it go.

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suzen offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 Add Friend #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (30 minutes after post)

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (32 minutes after post)

I have been in that awful situation before. All I can tell you is that time will heal everything. I know you don’t believe it now but you have to be strong for yourself. Climb out of that bed even if you don’t feel like it and do something for yourself. Keep busy with friends or just go to the store and eat ice cream anything to make yourself feel better. Remember there is no time limit to when you need to feel better so take time with your fragile heart and know that you will get through this. Let time take its course and try to smile, youll feel a little better if you do. Take care of you and make sure that if you need support you seek it. I wish you all the best in your low time and hope that soon the sun shines through the window for you. :)

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (43 minutes after post)

Hi there, first of all i am very sorry to hear you are not in a very good state now. But you need to learn how to get up and move on. If you said you refuse to go out…what about encouraging yourself instead to call friends and have a laugh with them? it is not going to heal it overnight. But it gives you the chance to give what you owe to yourself….a break.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (3 hours, 28 minutes after post)
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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (8 hours, 43 minutes after post)

hi im going through for me a very painful break up have been for 3 months its really hard no word can descride it. But you need to take control and just keep busy it really does work a treat. And do stuff that makes you feel good cause that way you will want to do them. You need to like me re build yourself its gonna be hard and heartbraking at times but you will come out the better person because of it good luck

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 day, 10 hours after post)

It is hard to go thru this. I have a couple of times. It is a hard thing to understand why. You have to remember everything happens for a reason. There is a purpose for it. Not saying that you two will be together or not. But if it is meant to be it will happen. God Bless you both.

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (1 month, 3 weeks after post)

does anyone have advice on a breakup thats so bad all you think about is suicide?

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An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (8 months after post)

I know exactly how you feel :(

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