friends help: Everything is better, everything is fine, yet I still feel sad and lonely. - Help.com



This post left anonymously

Everything is better, everything is fine, yet I still feel sad and lonely.

I feel like nobody’s there for me, and that I’m just everybody’s entertainment. My girlfriend threatened to kill herself last night, which made me really upset. We nearly broke up because of it. Her friends blame me, and I know they won’t forgive me. I’ll never be able to hang out with her and her friends, I’ll never be able to make things right for her.

Everything just feels… cold. I don’t get it.

This open post was written 1 year ago | V/U/S: 88, 4, 3 | Edit Post | Leave a reply | Report Post


Reciprocity (0) Reciprocation Failure -- The poster has NOT helped anyone else yet!

Since writing this post Anonymous may have helped people, but has not within the last 4 days.

Post Tags (10)

friends, upset, night, Feels, girlfriend, Entertainment, Fine, Blame, hang, depression (How Tags Affect Reciprocity)

Replies (4)

Where were you?

Click and drag to move the map around. FAQ: How we place people on this map »
You can also watch events on Help.com as they happen
Mouse over the map for 2 seconds to see an expanded, interactive view

HelpBot offline Verified User (0 minutes) Shouts: 5 #
San Francisco, CA, US | 1 year ago (0 minutes after post)

If you are contemplating suicide, hurting yourself, or you are seriously depressed: please, seek professional help!

Call this hotline (1-800-273-8255) operated by our friends at the
Suicide Prevention Lifeline, anytime, for free, professional, and
confidential assistance. While other Help.com users are likely to reply
to your post, please make sure you understand that your use of Help.com
falls under our TOS.

Note: I’m a robot that the Help.com staff created. If this response is in error, I apologize, please ignore it.

Jayde* offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 16 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (7 minutes after post)

i think i know what your saying. i feel the same way sometimes. sometimes i just feel like i’m the all alone in this world and no one cares.
as for your girlfriend, just be there for her, let her know exactly how much you care and how much it hurts you that she wants too kill herself. talk it out and be there for her. and if you havent already talked about it maybe you and her should talk about her wanting too kill her self, maybe if you understand it more you can help her out more. and maybe by helping your girlfriend out maybe you’ll feel less alone.

Quote this reply Report this reply to moderators
Help me with: Happy Birthday Stoli!
linuxya offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (11 minutes after post)

Don’t be a rescuer! You’re getting your self esteem from “caring” for her and wanting to help her and fix her. Stop it!

You deserve a girl who is not broken.

You deserve a girl who loves you for who you are and NOT for what you do for her.

Get out there and find a girl like that.

Quote this reply Report this reply to moderators
Help me with: The problem with self serving advice
Cell offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 54 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 1 year ago (1 hour, 35 minutes after post)

What’s up with your gf? Why are her friends mad at you?

Quote this reply Report this reply to moderators
Help me with: My 7 year old daughter says she wants to be an artist when she grows up.

Invite Others to Help

A logged in and verified Help.com member has the ability to setup a Friends List and invite others to help with posts.