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The thing about dreams and things you want that may seem out of reach is they test your will, to test really how important it is to you. Some people will try and try and its unbearably difficult so they give up. Then there are those who despite all the wounds and struggle they don’t stop, and when they do reach those dreams the feeling is of the ultimate success. Question is? are you going to be the one who gives up or the one who is an unstoppable force. Take some time for yourself and collect your thoughts. Find out what is it you really want and make a tactical plan for it.

Don’t make so much about doing something important. The very best contribution you can make in this world is to accept yourself for who you are, and do some small thing every day to help yourself and others. You will be making a meaningful contribution to the world every day. That is far more important, far more satisfying than doing something “big and important”.

The problem with big dreams is if you don’t reach them, you feel like a failure. But you’re setting the bar too high. Break things down into baby steps. Enjoy the journey.

are you old enough to get a job of some sort?

if you want, you are half way there. next you need to believe you can have it… whatever it may be.

ah, well perhaps try to help around the house more. ask parents if they need anything.
rake leaves, shovel snow, go out and meet people

whoa that’s deep, well just think about your dreams and feel that burning desire for it, there must be something you really want?

all the more reason to push yourself out there and overcome it

done with the edit

hmm i assume avoidient personality disorder then, the reason for shyness is being afraid of how the world will treat if you did open up
its okay to be shy it takes time to be more “out there” but it’s only if you want too

you mean
“Since writing this post kumpo665 has not helped any one else. kumpo665 is a verified member, has been around for 19 minutes and has 2 posts and 5 replies to their name.”?
you do not HAVE to but it is nice to.
just go to another post, read it, and make a worthwhile reply
then refresh this one to see that turn green

yes, just go out to a post you might be able to give opinion to and give it. but be nice and respectful

the mods are always watching and they do not like bad replies.

no problem, that is what we do here

what was it that you thought was your calling?

Help the world. Help yourself.