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im dating a girl online..we talk for hours daily..i need to get to her country and start a relationship with her..

we are in two separate countries bt not far away from each other.. like the distance between las vegas and new york.. bt now shes a burden to me..cuz im a 18 yr old studying for my exams..i always have to get on and check up on her..like a responsebility..i need to get away bt i cant just say goodbye and forget her..cuz weve been dating for 3 months and its still big to me..so what shall i do? please help me! xxthanxz for readingxx

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seas light offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (7 minutes after post)

You may care for her, but if she is a burden to you, well face it 3mts; = just 90 days. Better to end it now then let this go on and you’ll really feel like your stuck. Your still young. Maybe after you take care of the school things, some day you two can resume, if that’s what is meant to be. You can’t have your cake and eat it too. You have to decide. You can still remain close friends, but a long distance relationship will really be quite hard to maintain. Give this some serious thought. Weigh your options, and go from there. Best of luck to you :)

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okei! offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 93 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (33 minutes after post)

meaning u havent seem her yet?! forget it then!

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (2 hours, 33 minutes after post)

First of all - U aint DATING anyone.. Just calm down and concentrate on ur exams

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (3 hours, 26 minutes after post)

ok, i agree with what everyone’s saying on this post.

but. it’s hard, because whenever you come on teh comp, you see her (read her) and you feel like you have some substantial. you feel you’ve accomplished something.

maybe your heartbeat quickens sometimes when you say intimate things to each other.

she’s a burden, but a sweet burden?

ok, i can empathize. but, focus on your exams. and when that’s finished. take the trip. you can rush headlong into things, because you’re young and learning. But dont forget your exams.

you said you need to get away in your post. Ok. you know best. try to control yourself better. it’s hard but it’s worth the effort.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (2 weeks after post)

hi i know how it is burden to you but you mest take care of your exams and then if you feel you need it try to be closer as a friend and then take off from her then if she care fer u immediately she will wright to u

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (2 weeks after post)

I wish to know from your opinion the person who mostly position to bring disappointment to relationship,is it the boy or the girl?

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (10 months, 2 weeks after post)

Online dating is like that, you can fall in love even before you meet in person.

http://www.easydate.co.il/

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