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hi, well i am nearly 8 months pregnant.

my partner is spending alot of his time with his ex helping sort out her problems with her fella. when he comes in he plays on the pc and does not talk to me. when i try to talk to him about his talking in his sleep and his hitting me in his sleep he has ago at me and then gets funny.i feel so alone and so scared i cant carry on being in the wrong all the time and being so sad. i just want to run away and never ome back help me what do i do?

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (10 minutes after post)

Any family member you can run to? why are you still with this man when it is clear he does not care?

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (25 minutes after post)

starglider_ wrote:
my partner is spending alot of his time with his ex helping sort out her problems

starglider_ wrote:
he plays on the pc and does not talk to me

Something is clearly wrong, and he owes you an explanation. What he is doing to you right now must feel like torture.

The situation with him and his ex is completely and utterly unacceptable. Her problems are not his, and he gave up the right to dote on her when he begun his relationship with you. His has a committment to you and his child and that is where his heart and focus should be.

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1 year, 1 month ago (2 hours, 27 minutes after post)

Have you told him all of this? If you don’t think you can work things out, get out of there. You have to do what is best for the safety and health of you and your baby. Talk to your family and/or see if your parents will let you move back home. And if you do move out, make sure that you make arrangements for child support.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (3 days, 5 hours after post)

i have talked to him he says they have been friends for along time and he cares for her. my family dont live near me so i cant turn to them.i know i should leave but its easier said than done when u r scared of someone.god i am a chicken. thank you for all your help
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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (3 days, 9 hours after post)

The helping with his ex can be tolerated but ignoring you is something else. He can always be kind to other people, fixing stuff for them but he should not forget his responsibility to you.

Tell him you feel abandoned. There should be a time when he can play with his play station, be with his friends etc but there should always be time for you.

Remember, you can be understanding. But he should make sure you feel secure.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (2 weeks, 2 days after post)

Contact a local battered women’s shelter ASAP. They know how to keep things confidential and low-key, but have counselors and other resources that could help you. Also, it may help you just to be able to talk with others about what you’re going through, so you won’t feel so alone. Now is a time that you need to be able to focus on your baby and its well-being. The fear and stress that you are going through are not good for you or the baby. What may have been tolerable when it was just you will become that much more difficult for you when the baby is born.

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