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its weird, i am almost competing with my brother for a girl.

the girl is a year younger than me and a year older that my brother. we both want to ask her out but he has a better chance of seeing her before i do. the thing is he’s a nice guy but just the way he acts around women in general his chances of her saying yes are a little less than good. idk if i’ll get to ask her before he does, but if he asks her on a date and she happens to say no, would it be entirely horrible for me to ask her out later on? im posting anonymously because this kinda seems wrong but i really like the girl.

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xXxJessica offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (5 minutes after post)

Then ask her, you like the girl! ASK!!
Unless your brother doesn’t know?
Talk it over with him…

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1 year ago (2 hours, 26 minutes after post)

he knows lol
i just dunno if i’ll get to see her before he does
which suuuuucks
i’ll be surprised if he has it in him to ask her out
hopefully i can get a chance to before he does

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xXxJessica offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (22 hours, 1 minute after post)

If she says yes to him maybe she’l learn its a mistake anyway then…And if they stay together then you to aint ment to be lol… its just what happens.. :P
There’s plenty more fish in the sea!

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1 year ago (22 hours, 59 minutes after post)

Personally if your brother asks her and he gets a no, the i would NOT ask her, it would be awkward i think.

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1 year ago (1 day, 19 hours after post)

Anonymous wrote:
Personally if your brother asks her and he gets a no, the i would NOT ask her, it would be awkward i think.

thats what i meant, yeah
definitely want to ask her first, if i get the chance. im so busy lately that i don’t have the opportunity

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