happiness help: If a long term user was feeling down, and he was usually the

Commander Ikari

If a long term user was feeling down, and he was usually

the happy sort, do you think any of their attempts to get help from their peers on here would lead him to be viewed as not what they used to be, and less liked?

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Since writing this post Commander Ikari has helped in 3 other users' posts within the last 4 days. Commander Ikari is a verified member, has been around for 1 year, 8 months and has 473 posts and 25,611 replies to their name.

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Cell 54 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 1 year ago (1 minute after post)

No. We all need help from time to time.

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angel♥ 36 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (2 minutes after post)

not at all. like cell said, everyone needs help every so often.
most people on this website arent the kind of person to put others down… we’re here to help!
whats wrong?

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____________________ 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (3 minutes after post)

Nah, we all go through tough times. And if it was really that important for him to keep up his image, he could post anon.

Commander Ikari 234 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (3 minutes after post)

Nothing is wrong, it is a question.

Help me with: I Heard It Through The Grapevine

Cell 54 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 1 year ago (4 minutes after post)

Sure, sure. :)

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Commander Ikari 234 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (7 minutes after post)

Cell wrote:
Sure, sure. :)

You do not have to believe me.

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Cell 54 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 1 year ago (8 minutes after post)

Why do you ask?

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Commander Ikari 234 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (9 minutes after post)

Cell wrote:
Why do you ask?

I was curious.

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____________________ 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (9 minutes after post)

Why’re writing so formally, Ikari? o.O

kemmy 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (10 minutes after post)

I agree with what everyone else has said. Besides that, if this person has really made some real relationships with the people here, then itd be just like helping out a friend face to face. Youll still see them the same way, but now youre friendship might be better, and the person in question will feel like they have more support.

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Commander Ikari 234 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (11 minutes after post)

JahRadio wrote:
Why’re writing so formally, Ikari? o.O

Perhaps it is my new style of writing…

Help me with: I Heard It Through The Grapevine

____________________ 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (11 minutes after post)

Commander Ikari wrote:

JahRadio wrote:
Why’re writing so formally, Ikari? o.O
Perhaps it is my new style of writing…

Oh okay then. As long as you’re good, I’m good too =).

THE INTERNET 7 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (17 minutes after post)

Commander Ikari wrote:

JahRadio wrote:
Why’re writing so formally, Ikari? o.O

Perhaps it is my new style of writing…

rly? dis is gunna b my nu styl uf writin!
we cud b twinz!

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THE INTERNET 7 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (17 minutes after post)

we all need hlp evry 1ce an a whle

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Commander Ikari 234 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (18 minutes after post)

Alpha Knight wrote:

Commander Ikari wrote:

JahRadio wrote:
Why’re writing so formally, Ikari? o.O
Perhaps it is my new style of writing…
rly? dis is gunna b my nu styl uf writin!we cud b twinz!

Har Har.

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THE INTERNET 7 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (18 minutes after post)

sum just need it mre often thn otherz

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____________________ 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (18 minutes after post)

Alpha Knight wrote:

Commander Ikari wrote:

JahRadio wrote:
Why’re writing so formally, Ikari? o.O
Perhaps it is my new style of writing…
rly? dis is gunna b my nu styl uf writin!we cud b twinz!

XD!

mumstheword 72 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (29 minutes after post)

Hi.

If the peers were making him feel down.. then they might use “you’re boring now” or something to justify what they are doing. A kind of vicious cirle maybe.

Does that make sense?

mumstheword 72 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (29 minutes after post)

circle*

Sans 52 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (37 minutes after post)

Go ahead Ikari, let the tears go.
lol

☆miss lilies☆ 250 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (38 minutes after post)

Been here for a year plus now and everyday i need the help of my friends here. When i feel down, every single message of encouragement is appreciated.:)

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~Shie~ 10 #
Gloversville, NY, US | 1 year ago (11 hours, 47 minutes after post)

i personally found that i like to be funny… it helps me laugh and helps others laugh as well… lately, i have been feeling a bit glum and wrote a couple posts about my issue(s) and felt a bit embarrassed while writing them… but then all my friends came along and helped me understand that im human… im not perfect and neither is my life… and if people think bad of me …. ahhh well… their problem, not mine.

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