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My boyfriend was dating one of his long time friends for about 3 and a half years.
During those years they had a little girl together, and bought a house. Two months into the house, he finds out she’s been sneakin around seeing some other guy, so he breaks it off. My boyfriend is a very closed off guy, he’s very smart when it comes to political things and how to work/fix things and how to get around rules and such(i’m not really sure why you guys needed to know that, but…oh well) And he’s also a minimalist. The house he’s in has 3 bedrooms, a living room, kitchen and 2 baths. It’s very plain he doesn’t have much but a couch, two chairs and a table. And his kitchen table consist of two chairs only. Needless to say, it’s not much at all for the size of the house. When I got to his house however, I found everything he owned (besides his bedroom stuff his tv, and his daughters things) stacked in a corner of the the livingroom, when I asked what was going on, he simply said he gathered all the things he wasn’t using or didn’t want, and was giving it away. And made it a point to tell me he was giving away the dishes I had wanted him to keep, and that he wasn’t doing it for me, it was for him( and all the while he was saying this, I hadn’t mentioned any word about what was going on, I simply said Oh.)
I’m really confused by his actions. This is just the most recent. From day to day his attitude changes, one day he’ll be all lovey dovey and caring, the next it’s like I might as well not even be there. It’s so incredibly confusing. He’s told me that he loves me, and that he cares a lot about me. But all this is confusing. For the past week he’s been talkin about getting a smaller house, and he’s been including me in it, saying that maybe I’d be living in it, and that he wants’ to know what I think of doing this and that. Which was fine. But then today he threw this at me. And i’m completely lost. Any thoughts on what’s going on? I know he’s probably still hurting. But is this why he’s acting like this?
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