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Wait for her.
Ask her if she wants to talk first, then its up to her to decide if she still wants to
depends on the reasons y u split? and did she dump you?
I wasn’t expressing my feelings really and kind of pushed her away so she left.
well then u have to be the one to make the first move if she will let you then you have to be open and honest with her about everything, but if she says no u have to respect her choice
I am in the same situation as you..
I contacted her(after 2 years we broke up),
just talked casually, I really wanna tell her that I still can’t get over her..
but I didn’t..
I am a girl and I want to tell you guys something. I broke up with my ex 2 years ago and I haven’t got over him yet. He called me three times after that casually. I responded but overtime, he stopped contacting me. After 2 long years, I saw him again this year. I texted him, he replied. Just about 4 months a go, I told him that I still had feelings for him. He said he has to think about it. We were supposed to meet, but for some reason, we could not. After that, he did not reply or contact me. However, last week was his birthday and I wished him via text message. He replied me saying he does not have my number and asked me who this was. I told him it was me and he never replied me after that. I am extremely sad. I really love him very deeply and want him back. What should i do? I cant get over him. other guys simply dont interest me. Any feedback would help me, please.
be short and sweet going through this at the moment after few days just be shorter and shorter on texts your busy etc. Getting on with things, i did the wrong thing when she broke up by saying would change etc but this never works trying to salvage my stupid attitude at this point.
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i made the first move by calling my ex gf last week. To my surprise, she answered my call and we talked for several minutes. And guess what, i managed to ask her out for a drink. We havent spoken for almost a year now, so kinda happy to see her again, well, soon. :) This time, i gonna do my best to win her back and keep her by my side!
my advice is, just call her. Just say hi. Don’t wait! Go for it!
guys, i broke up with my ex, and its been 6months since we broke up. and he just cant get out of my head. i do still love him. should i have to do the first move to make a contact with him?. or should i wait him to make the first move?. i just dont know if he still had a feelings for me. but our relationship last for 1year and 3months.
whoever broke up with whom is OBLIGATED to make first contact. Anyone who thinks they can break up with someone, yet be the one to be contacted rather than do the contacting is a real POS!
I agree with apostolosathanasio.
My ex girlfriend broke up with me 8 and a half months ago, and is doing all kinds of chasing and snooping on me to see who I’m with and what I am doing. Even though she makes it seem like she isn’t doing it. She keeps hiding while she has other people do it. She did the breaking up, she’s doing the chasing and snooping. I’m just ignoring it all. In reality, she is the one who is obligated to call when she understands how she feels and understands that she wants and needs me and when she understands and decides to contact me and come back again. The breakup-ee should not be the one contacting their ex.
My girlfriend broke up with me 3 weeks ago by telling me she doesn’t feel attraction for me anymore, just like that. We dated for 1 year. I didn’t contact her since 3 weeks. I feel she should contact me first, but I also feel restless. Don’t know waht to think.
Tough call. If they say they just wanted to be friends, and you said no and broke it off completely, then who should make the first move? Probably better just to move on. No point in killing yourself thinking about that person. They may have been special to you in that point in your life, but you’ve got to grow and find new people to have experiences with. You broke up for a reason, and that should be good enough.
it’s been 3 years plus since my ex broke up with me, it was my hardest time in my life and i’ve suffered mentally .but yesterday i contacted her out of sudden just want to know whether she will answer my call and she did . We had a long good conversation, and we end the conversation in good way.
This morning, she called me asking me about something related to work….but i was busy at that time and she hung up reluctantly…what does it mean?? should i call her back ?? she never call me since the break up and i make the 1st move by contacted her yesterday……..
Ok i am going to ask this question for the girls on here but guys feel free to answer it. My fiance/Girlfriend broke up with me 2 in a half weeks ago and ive been suffering and want to contact her she broke up with me cuz i mest up in the past and she couldnt let it go and couldnt trust me and she said she needed her space :/ the week she broke up with me it was a sunday and i went to her moms house mon, wed, and i think sun, asking how she was doing and finally got to talk to her the next week on tuesday and she told me she will always love me. and dose miss me and realize what shes lost and told me just to chill out have fun and give her space and maybe we will get back together and she said she dosent regret nothing and we did have special moments together. we where talking yesterday for a week of no contact and it was all going good intill she messaged me that night to stop messaging her friend and mom and that was not making things any better:/ i told her mom that i miss them and ask her friend if she can help me and she sounded pretty mad :( and my question is should i wait for her to message me/ text me or should i do the first move and get her back by making her fall for me again? what should i do i feel it in my heart and soul she is the one! Ive been praying every night cuz i love her with all my hear and we had so much in our relationship that i will never forget. Girls/Guys what should i do? wait for her to contact me of try and get her back?
it depends on the situation and overal approach
as hard as it is to go NC, dude you gotta do it, shes gotta ask herself soon enough “what happened to the guy i dumped”??? “and weird how i havent heard a peep from him lately”….it not always the person missing you after going NC, but i do know for sure women question themselves “wow maybe he did move on pretty quickly, i expected him to be my puppy at my door step” and she will contact you !!
good luck !!
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