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!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I have changed……. changed completely…….

from zenith to nadir, i m following d path…..

i m going so deep and deep in to d hell with d hope i would come back….

I m lost somewhere in d darkness……. and expecting a beam of life to take me back where i was….

i want my self to come back…. some day i might come back….

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*~jemma~* offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (2 minutes after post)

why have you changed? were circumstances suddenly different or did other people contribute?

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Ξ.Ģäβž.Ξ offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (4 minutes after post)

Whats d path you are following ? If you turn on d light you wont be in d dark anymore. Let us know when you’ve returned to d normality

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (8 minutes after post)

Gabz wrote:
Whats d path you are following ? If you turn on d light you wont be in d dark anymore. Let us know when you’ve returned to d normality

Hilarious… Voted for that =).

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*~jemma~* offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (10 minutes after post)

i dont think its that funny.this person would like help and you appear to be joking about it

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (11 minutes after post)

littlemissmusic wrote:
i dont think its that funny.this person would like help and you appear to be joking about it

You have every right to disagree. It’s still funny to me.

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Bigg Boss Is Dead offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (12 minutes after post)

littlemissmusic wrote:
why have you changed? were circumstances suddenly different or did other people contribute?

circumstances…….

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (13 minutes after post)

maybe what’s the poster is talking about has some reference to ‘the secret’?

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (13 minutes after post)

Gabz wrote:
Whats d path you are following ? If you turn on d light you wont be in d dark anymore. Let us know when you’ve returned to d normality

i dont know, when i will return but i eel help of all of u…….

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*~jemma~* offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (14 minutes after post)

what kind of circumstances if you dont mind my asking?

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tricky offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 39 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (15 minutes after post)

i land of dust
i came into it
suddenly the world came into a piece
a piece of foever existence :P

can you be a bit more clear about what do you want , you sound liek that poem to me ^_^

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (19 minutes after post)

littlemissmusic wrote:
what kind of circumstances if you dont mind my asking?

i used to be very helpful person…. i used to love my family always….. i was quite emotional kind of person… i always remained jolly, with friends, lovable person….. a topper of college….

a gal came in to my life, she playedwith y emotions and left my life…. i got threatening from her end that i would b killed….. i was insulted…….my parents were insulted…

than i changed…….. now i dnt love anybody…… i remain lonely, i remain qquite……….

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*~jemma~* offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (20 minutes after post)

that is quite awful…is it because of this girl that you dont love anyone now?

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (21 minutes after post)

tricky wrote:
i land of dust i came into it suddenly the world came into a piece a piece of foever existence :Pcan you be a bit more clear about what do you want , you sound liek that poem to me ^_^

i used to be very helpful person…. i used to love my family always….. i was quite emotional kind of person… i always remained jolly, with friends, lovable person….. a topper of college….

a gal came in to my life, she playedwith y emotions and left my life…. i got threatening from her end that i would b killed….. i was insulted…….my parents were insulted…

than i changed…….. now i dnt love anybody…… i remain lonely, i remain qquite……….

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tricky offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 39 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (22 minutes after post)

i guess that is just normal you basically dont trust anybody right ?

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (22 minutes after post)

littlemissmusic wrote:
that is quite awful…is it because of this girl that you dont love anyone now?

i dont believe in love now…… i m now demotivated completely……

from zenith(a topper) to nadir(a failure) i m following d path……..

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*~jemma~* offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (23 minutes after post)

what is demotivated?

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (24 minutes after post)

tricky wrote:
i guess that is just normal you basically dont trust anybody right ?

yes….. but i want myself back…… i want to love people, i want to be d topper again, i want peace… i want everything back xcept that gal…….

i want to move from nadir to zenith……

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*~jemma~* offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (25 minutes after post)

thats understandable…unfortunately i dont know how to help you to love again…

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (26 minutes after post)

littlemissmusic wrote:
what is demotivated?

i use to love my family…. my family was everything for me……..

i hurt them

i hurt myself…..

i killed my happiness, my jolly nature……

i remain quite now….

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tricky offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 39 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (26 minutes after post)

ok man, look… you have like a big bag of apples , you eat one and it is rotten , it doesnt mean every other apple is rotten when , keep that in mind…. not all ppl are like that , some ppl deserve ur love , just try to test ppl before you give thme your all love and stuff

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (26 minutes after post)

Wait and see if the dollar rebounds, then decide.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (27 minutes after post)

littlemissmusic wrote:
thats understandable…unfortunately i dont know how to help you to love again…

i dont want to love that gal again, i want to b happy now…

i want to b motivated now……

i want tp prove that i m the topper…… i m d bestrt again….

i dnt know hw 2 start….

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (28 minutes after post)

You will get it back. Love never dies a natural death and exists even when it cant be felt.

Give yourself time to heal and your abilities will regenerate themselves. It is hard, but you must give it time.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (28 minutes after post)

tricky wrote:
ok man, look… you have like a big bag of apples , you eat one and it is rotten , it doesnt mean every other apple is rotten when , keep that in mind…. not all ppl are like that , some ppl deserve ur love , just try to test ppl before you give thme your all love and stuff

how t judge a person??/ i judged earlier but it was a failure…..

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (31 minutes after post)

JahRadio wrote:

littlemissmusic wrote:
i dont think its that funny.this person would like help and you appear to be joking about it

You have every right to disagree. It’s still funny to me.

**** off………

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (32 minutes after post)

how to regain confidence???/

how to prove those haughgty ppl that they r not more than a *****

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tricky offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 39 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (35 minutes after post)

just take ur time with the judgment dont quickly come into conclusions… dont give thme ur all at first , just one step at a time… if you really want to see you will be able to see,, sometimes we blind ourselves

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (36 minutes after post)

Sometimes we have to get lost to find ourselves. Give it time, and you will learn to love again. Somebody unexpected will come into your life that will change your perspectives and your feelings towards love. Somebody will eventually knock down those barriers that you have put up to keep the pain out. Just look after yourself before anyone else and take your time with new relationships. Don’t rush into things, or your confidence may be shattered again.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (39 minutes after post)

guitarlegend_12 wrote:
Sometimes we have to get lost to find ourselves. Give it time, and you will learn to love again. Somebody unexpected will come into your life that will change your perspectives and your feelings towards love. Somebody will eventually knock down those barriers that you have put up to keep the pain out. Just look after yourself before anyone else and take your time with new relationships. Don’t rush into things, or your confidence may be shattered again.

i will wait for d dayyyy….

but how to move from nadir to zenith now, i want my position back..??????

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tricky offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 39 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (40 minutes after post)

what the hell is nadir and zenith ?

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (42 minutes after post)

tricky wrote:
what the hell is nadir and zenith ?

nadir means the lowest place, means the place that is ver low and nothing exists below it, failure…….

zenith means top of the sky, success…..

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Bogdan (Gone) offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (42 minutes after post)

Nadir is the lowest point of despair http://dictionary.reference.com/brows…

Zenith is the highest of happy http://dictionary.reference.com/brows…

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (42 minutes after post)

oh kk thanks guyz

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (44 minutes after post)

tricky wrote:
oh kk thanks guyz

k then tell me, how should i start working again….. how can i get my confidence back…….

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tricky offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 39 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (46 minutes after post)

hmm well i posted a post where the hell is happiness i dont know if it will do you go , but go ahead read it ….

you should seek what you want from this life and what makes you happy … the questions you are looking answers for is inside you, we cant really tell you how to be happy , cause it’s really you can make it and know the anser in post i try to tell ppl in general how to seek happiness but the matter of fact remains , everybody wants different things , what’s done is done , you should find a goal and seek it and i think in my post i help ppl have the right mentallity not to fall easily to typical problem

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Bogdan (Gone) offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (49 minutes after post)

I have found this to be helpful http://www.wikihow.com/Be-Confident

It is a fairly basic self help guide and it may help you. If you are interested, check it out.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (52 minutes after post)

tricky wrote:
hmm well i posted a post where the hell is happiness i dont know if it will do you go , but go ahead read it ….

you should seek what you want from this life and what makes you happy … the questions you are looking answers for is inside you, we cant really tell you how to be happy , cause it’s really you can make it and know the anser in post i try to tell ppl in general how to seek happiness but the matter of fact remains , everybody wants different things , what’s done is done , you should find a goal and seek it and i think in my post i help ppl have the right mentallity not to fall easily to typical problem

thank you dear, u send he best answer……. i wil definately read ur posts….. thanks alot……keep creating happiness……

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (54 minutes after post)

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tricky wrote:
hmm well i posted a post where the hell is happiness i dont know if it will do you go , but go ahead read it …. you should seek what you want from this life and what makes you happy … the questions you are looking answers for is inside you, we cant really tell you how to be happy , cause it’s really you can make it and know the anser in post i try to tell ppl in general how to seek happiness but the matter of fact remains , everybody wants different things , what’s done is done , you should find a goal and seek it and i think in my post i help ppl have the right mentallity not to fall easily to typical problem
thank you dear, u send he best answer……. i wil definately read ur posts….. thanks alot……keep creating happiness……

^_^ best of luck man , if you need anything just give me a shout

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (55 minutes after post)

tricky wrote:

Bigg Boss wrote:
tricky wrote:
hmm well i posted a post where the hell is happiness i dont know if it will do you go , but go ahead read it …. you should seek what you want from this life and what makes you happy … the questions you are looking answers for is inside you, we cant really tell you how to be happy , cause it’s really you can make it and know the anser in post i try to tell ppl in general how to seek happiness but the matter of fact remains , everybody wants different things , what’s done is done , you should find a goal and seek it and i think in my post i help ppl have the right mentallity not to fall easily to typical problem
thank you dear, u send he best answer……. i wil definately read ur posts….. thanks alot……keep creating happiness……

^_^ best of luck man , if you need anything just give me a shout

sure… i hv added u as friend…… jst check it out……. take care….

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