If she has a boyfriend the last thing you want to do is tell her you still like her or even kiss her because she’ll jus think your out to ruin her relationship. I know you say you can’t get over her but the best possible thing would be to find something to take your mind off of her. Start playing a sport or find a hobby that occupies your mind and stops your thoughts straying to this girl. The last thing you need is confrontation and arguments with her, bevause that will just ruin what friendship you have with her. Sorry I couldn’t be of more help.
its fine. i guess friendship is better than noship. haha.
thatguyfromtheslab wrote:
its fine. i guess friendship is better than noship. haha.
Haha you have a point there and don’t worry maybe if things go wrong with the guy she is dating at the moment she might realise how much better off with you she was than him…
well i know she was im not just saying that, haha. she always tells me how she wants to break up with him for bein an *******, and how he smokes meth and heroin.
Then give her friendly advice telling her tha he clearly isn’t rih#ght for her and that shes risking her own health and safety being with him.
yeah i shud do that, il do it tomorrow
yeah, i do too. oh **** i just rembered its haloween. happy haloween
Happy halloween to you to.
thanks, i think i have sleeping problems i dont seem to get tired till about 6 in the morning, than i just sleep till around 530 and wake up, becuase my school does not start for another 2 weeks
Lol thats odd youve gone nocturnal.
haha yes i have, its kinda wierd, when i start school again, im gunna have such a hard time going to bed before midnight. i rember it all started i went to this all night long dance party from 8pm to 8 am 12 hours long, a few months ago, now everyday i go to sleep very late.
Lol Youve just gotta kinda force your self into bed and just close you eyes and relax focus on relaxing each part of your body and then slow your breathing it really helps
il try that, thanks, yeah its odd, my dads timer for work goes off and thats ussualy when i go to bed, i tell him good morning than head off to the couch and watch tv, than fall asleep, i am very strange like that haha.
Lol I used to be like that I just did the relaxing and breathing thing and just let myself drift
i see, its 443 am where i am, why are you up so late? if you dont mind me asking
Well its quarter to tweleve in the morning here so technically I’m not up late. I’m from england you see.
lol oh i thought you were from the us of a.
Nope from england haha. I can see why that misconception might come into play with the use of Candy in my name.
yeah, i was wondering why someone would be on at this time, haha
lol Yeah its very odd with the time lines and stuff…
i live in lebanon it’s 2:00 pm at my time :P
well i think being friends wont help much in you forgetting her , i think you need to take urself away from her and find urself a new girl , that will help for sure…
It would help yeah tricky. But thats just burying feelings and that doesnt always work plus its a calloused way of dealing with it.
well am really against that idea but i have to admit it works…
but i dont wana comment further on why i told him that cause i dont think it will do him any good but in my point of view it aint the way to go, even tho it works somehow
Yeah It does work but sometimes it can have to opposite affect
yeah i know , any better advise ^_^
I wouldn’t know much about guys deaing with girls as I am a GIRL. But I know from girls experience if she has a jackass of a boyfriend then she doesnt want the added pressure of her ex hounding her he should just be there for her if she needs a shoulder to cry on or some one to confinde in.
wooow noooo being close to the girl will make things worst , it’s like a hungry child putting infront of him a piece of cholcolate ^_^
I’m thinking from a girls perspective here dude. Gimme a break I’m a girl! And I’ve helped many guys with relationship problems before and its all worked out good ebcause they were COMPASSIONATE and there when they where needed so -nurnur-. And he can benefit from it t because it would teach him to distance his emotions when helping someone he clearly cares about.
am talking from a men’s point of view it’s suicidal being with someone you love and you know you will never have her or him , am not trying to attack you so chill ^_^ am just giving my point of view on the subject am happy that you helped ppl and it worked out for them , good fro you and for them ^_^
Lol I dont feel like your attacking me dont worry about it. And I don’t know I love someone and I’m still friends with him and I help him with his girl trouble alot and yeah it stings a little but its always nice to see him smiling and happy. Even if it only means I’m on the sidelines watching.
sweet-candy-bab wrote:
Lol I dont feel like your attacking me dont worry about it. And I don’t know I love someone and I’m still friends with him and I help him with his girl trouble alot and yeah it stings a little but its always nice to see him smiling and happy. Even if it only means I’m on the sidelines watching.
you shouldnt be ok with that , because you deserve somebody who really loves you and is willing to put you first and the world later
tricky wrote:
sweet-candy-bab wrote:
Lol I dont feel like your attacking me dont worry about it. And I don’t know I love someone and I’m still friends with him and I help him with his girl trouble alot and yeah it stings a little but its always nice to see him smiling and happy. Even if it only means I’m on the sidelines watching.
you shouldnt be ok with that , because you deserve somebody who really loves you and is willing to put you first and the world later
Yeah I under stand that Tricky. But because I care about him I’m happy to see him happy you know. Its a version of opinions thig is this. I love him enough to let him go and be happy. Therefor I do not hound him about how I feel. Instead I help him when he asks me to and I’m there for him when he needs a friend. Its a very complicated way but it works in its own little way.
sweet-candy-bab wrote:
tricky wrote:
sweet-candy-bab wrote:
Lol I dont feel like your attacking me dont worry about it. And I don’t know I love someone and I’m still friends with him and I help him with his girl trouble alot and yeah it stings a little but its always nice to see him smiling and happy. Even if it only means I’m on the sidelines watching.
you shouldnt be ok with that , because you deserve somebody who really loves you and is willing to put you first and the world later
Yeah I under stand that Tricky. But because I care about him I’m happy to see him happy you know. Its a version of opinions thig is this. I love him enough to let him go and be happy. Therefor I do not hound him about how I feel. Instead I help him when he asks me to and I’m there for him when he needs a friend. Its a very complicated way but it works in its own little way.
am glade to know it worked for you , it didnt work for me , it basically was gona kill me and it really killed me on the inside
Different things work for different people. It must be something in my northern British girl blood that makesme immune to that kinda hurt. I’m sorry to hear it hurt you so much though that really isn’t nice but I guess to each his own.
sweet-candy-bab
tricky