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what do i do when my boyfriends thinks he has me on check, but i dont want to say nothing.

Hes always having up and down moods. I odnt know how to react when he changes to a mood where everything annoys him?

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evansent 2008 offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (3 minutes after post)

has you on check??

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skyy offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (3 minutes after post)

Ok let me get this straight, you dont want your boyfriend to think he has you in check but you are scared to tell him because of his many moodswings?

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evansent 2008 offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (6 minutes after post)

ok im confused what do you mean has you on check?
hes keeping tabs on you?

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skyy offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (10 minutes after post)

evansent 2008 wrote:
ok im confused what do you mean has you on check?
hes keeping tabs on you?

Thats what it sounds like to me too

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skyy offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (11 minutes after post)

Listen i would tell him how you feel and if he over reacts leave him because things could turn violent (soon)

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CHICA9 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (21 minutes after post)

He says that according to him he has me on check, so he tells me you cant go to certain places. but then sometimes when were all cuddy and all happy sometimes his mood changes and he act like everything annoys him .

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evansent 2008 offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (22 minutes after post)

how long you been with your bf

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CHICA9 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (24 minutes after post)

FOR 6 MONTHS

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evansent 2008 offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (24 minutes after post)

dont ever let anyone dictate to you
you are your own person
dont be bullied by him or anyone!

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CHICA9 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (28 minutes after post)

Yea i know i shouldnt be bullied…

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evansent 2008 offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (34 minutes after post)

if he tells you you cant go to places
tell him your,your own person
so he can go get stuffed!

start now before it ends in tears :)

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skyy offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (2 hours, 13 minutes after post)

Ummm i think you need to leave him all together to be honest. When did this behavior of his start? I hope it didnt start in the beginning because you shouldnt hit the road then

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skyy offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (2 hours, 13 minutes after post)

*shouldve hit

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