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Hi, first time posting here.
This is my story, I don’t really know what I want you guys to help me with. But my heart hurts and i think some comments from you maybe can help me see clear on what to do.
Me and my friend recently went on a trip to Spain. (us being from Sweden)
The second night we were out, two girls walked past us and we thought HEY!
We followed them into a kareoke bar and started to smalltalk, after 10 minutes I was caught by the brunette.
As it turned out they were from Sweden as well, she lived like a 5 hours drive by car from me. We spent the night out together. The morning after I woke up and felt really strange, like a urge to meet that girl again.
We learned from the night that they lived on the same hotel as we did, a really big one. So I started to walk around the different pool’s and by the ocean just to “accidentally” walk into her. When I finally made my peace knowing I would never meet her again we sat down and ordered some food at the beach bar. On our way back up to the hotel I saw the girl, I blushed and my knees went like spaghetti when I started to talk to her. She invited us to come along to some “after beach” at the hotel..
Later that night we met them and began to order some drinks. Only thing that went on in my head was how gorgeous she was and how much I was enjoying listening to her. Some hours of drinks later we took a cab in to the night clubs, dancing the night away! Back at the hotel she told her friend to go to her room and that she would come back later, at that point my friend went back to our room as well. We walked down to the beach just relaxing and looking at the sea. We started hold each other as it was pretty cold in the night. Our lips met and we just stood there under the palms looking in each others eyes. The whole situation was very romantic. I followed her back to her room and she gave me her number. The morning after they went back home to Sweden, but we still had 4 days left of our stay. The following days was just a pain for me, I don’t want to fall in love! 1 year ago me and my ex gf broke up after a 4 years long relationship, so I’m pretty fed up with it.
Until the day that we got back home to Sweden I still haven’t heard from her. out of the blue I got a text from her, It sounded like this: “It was fun to meet you, your a very funny and sweet guy. I have never felt so appreciated by anyone before as I did with you.” That’s a good thing, right? :)
We have been talking some on the phone, both being very defensive as I don’t know how she feels, and her.. well, I don’t know. Last night I sent her some roses, with a note that said “You made my week, thank you lovely”. She called me when she got them asking if they were from me. When i said yes she started to cry and said that was one of the nicest things anyone ever done for her. (her ex was a typically ****tard that hits girls). She sends me texts and calls me at nights some times.. we can go on for hours in the phone, and I really wanna tell her that I like her so much but I am afraid that it will scare her away.
Only thing I wanna do is be with her, holding her, and tell her how she stole my heart at first sight.
Sorry for a wall of text and maybe a not so good English grammar :)
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