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Hey i really need help with my boyfrienddrama…

i been with him for 4 months and he has these moments were he acts wired. like sometimes when i ask him a question…he says you ask to much and that i bug….but i what usually ask him is are you okay because he has theses moments wher he quiet and i waant to know if somethings wrong…

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EmilyRI offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (19 minutes after post)

Next time this happens and he says you’re bugging him, say “well, I’m here when you’re ready to talk. And I want you to know I only ask these questions because sometimes I worry about you”
The ball is now in his court. And when he’s ready to talk, if ever, he will. And now he knows that’s what’s next.

If this continues (and maybe gets worse) and he doesn’t open up even a little, consider asking how his day was, or any specific questions. Hopefully he won’t think you’re “bugging” him. And that really shouldn’t cease your curiousity!

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