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uhhhh ohhhh!
ok so i have a problem, im married, i have a 3 year old. i love my husband to death and would never leave him……i sometimes feel like i have a crush on this guy that i know nothing about,is this bad, and if so how do i stop this
a lil bit more about me and my husband he is the o nly guy i have been with, and im the only girl hes been with.
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how can you have a crush on someone you dont kno?
anyway dont even go there
if your happy with your hubby,why spoil it!
been there done that got the t.shirt
dont wreck lives lv :)
Don’t act upon it.. it’s normal to have crushes it’s what you do with them.. it will pass, if your bored with your marriage do something to spice it up.. we all can’t feel that in love feeling all the time, what would have to look foward to if we didn’t that moment of falling in love with our spouse all over again.
Give it time please don’t do anything you might regret, respect the blessing that is marriage
ohhh i wont! i dont even get any opportunities, im with my family all the time or work, i love him so much and im all he has, but i feel so horrible for even LOOKIN at another guy
look.theres no harm in looking or even talking
there is in touching tho
its so easy to fall into that trap
dont!
don’t feel horrible, just give yourself a pat on the back for apreciating what you have.. I would give you hug just knowing there is someone else out there to restore my faith in commitment and love
so this is all normal and will prob ahppen more, sorry this is all kinda new to me!
no you will have more temptaions along the road i am sure, just make sure you have the same mentality you do now, and remember love is labor.
Anonymous wrote:
so this is all normal and will prob ahppen more, sorry this is all kinda new to me!
temptation is a powerful emotion
love will prevail :)
i feel like a good wife wouldnt and shouldnt have those thoughts! i look at him and he swwms so innocent, ya know! he def has my heart tho! i can see why there are somany broken homes tho, its not easy and will prob get harder
thanks lv :)
Sweetncute wrote:
well said evan
how long you been with your man?
no it will get easier if you turn your focus to your husband, start looking at all his good qualities… we have been there, but crushes come and go.. so your crush may do something that make you think “why did i like him”
i think its just the physical attraction honestly
Well then yea we have all been there.. your fine sweetheart, just don’t do anything about it, it will pass.. just gotta stick it out. stay strong
i been with mine for 24 yrs(ye i kno you dont get that for triple murder do ya lol!)
if you really work at it.put your mind body&soul into it
love will prevail
dont feel guilty by having crushes/fantasys(you wouldnt be human otherwise)
just remember as well a great person would not take you away from your family
a person who truly loves you would stand back&let things work out 1st :)
thanks a bunch! i really cant talk to any about this that i know
Well if I were you I would just keep the crush a secret and don’t take it any further than that lest the unthinkable happens.
sweet n cute anytime :)
anon go give your hubby hugs&kisses :)
warren your supposed be in bed lol! :)
evansent 2008 wrote:
anon go give your hubby hugs&kisses :)
Or the “unthinkable” lol.
evansent 2008 wrote:
warren your supposed be in bed lol! :)
Are u his mother?!?!?!?
ill bring you up a nice cup of warm milk,&took you into bed son :)
kully303 wrote:
evansent 2008 wrote:
warren your supposed be in bed lol! :)Are u his mother?!?!?!?
lol!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
kully does warren look like hes got a pumpkin for his mother? lmao!!!!!!!!!!!
Mebe if that pumpkin could birth a child.
evansent 2008 wrote:
kully does warren look like hes got a pumpkin for his mother? lmao!!!!!!!!!!!
mmmm lol!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
i thinks its more of a dam hes cute kinda crush id just try and 4get bout it dnt ruin everything you have over that
I have a crush on Brad Pitt …
but I’d never want to split them up !
Keep your crushes inside your head and lock them away in the “fantasies and silly ideas” section and stick with hubby. Act on a crush and you’ll just get crushed.
have you seen the guy in womaniser video by brittany spears
omg hes hotttttttttttttttttttttt!!!!
so normal as long as you dont touch you can look
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