guy help: you don’t seem to be the same guy anymore….what does that mean?

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you don’t seem to be the same guy anymore…

.what does that mean? she lost interest in me? i ask her to justify it but she won’t give me anything detailed…jus vaguely says that i’ve changed…i know i haven’t cause she’s the only one who thinks i have. so is it time for me to move on?

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 minute after post)

that’s possible.

It could be it’s her that’s changed, but she doesn’t realise it.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (2 minutes after post)

People change. It happens a lot. Maybe you have to her. Just because you didn’t change with some people doesn’t mean you didn’t with others.
It means she feels like you treat her differently, you act differently. You are not the one she knew anymore. You’ve grown up or down, or something new altogether.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (3 minutes after post)

so that means its over? why cant she change to accomadate me…isn’t it about compromis

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (5 minutes after post)

i agree with the first response. she probably has been the one to change and she thinks its you. I’m sorry if it is over but maybe things will change for the best.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (5 minutes after post)

compromise is a two way street. you both have to be willing to give something up.

talk to her, and see if there’s a solution.

communication is important

anonymous10000 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (16 minutes after post)

i didn’t mean to sound so arrogant in my last response…i mean i comprimise alot for her jus the difference is that i know wen i need to compromise if that makes sense…

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (51 minutes after post)

Maybe, in the beginning, she saw an “idealized” version of you. The more she sees the real you the less you fit her “ideal”. Therefore, in her mind, you have changed. If an open, honest talk doesn’t help, move on. There will be someone who sees and appreciates the real you.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 3 minutes after post)

gravastorm…….tahnkyou soooo **** much!!! thats exactly wat i think…she jus kinda used me

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Gravastorm 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 17 minutes after post)

Sometimes it helps when someone else says what you’re already thinking. Kind of a confirmation. Sorry if it doesn’t work out for you two.

anonymous10000 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 34 minutes after post)

well truth is that i were prob thinking that but didn’t want to admit it

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