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First of all.

I’m “Penguin7941″ but i couldn’t remember my password to that, oooor, my hotmail.
anyways.

What’s a girl to do,

When people tell her she’s not pretty enough? Smart enough? Popular enough? Outgoing enough?

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¡Nellie.Skywalker! offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Washington, DC, US | 1 year ago (0 minutes after post)

Ignores it and moves on. :)
Have you been facing this?

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xxmarylouxx offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 minute after post)

Yes, for a while now.

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its a person!! offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (4 minutes after post)

from who?

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xxmarylouxx offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (5 minutes after post)

The girls and boys that the whole school loves.
The teachers kids, jocks, etc.

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its a person!! offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (7 minutes after post)

And do you really care what they think or is it just irritating you?

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angel♥ offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 36 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (8 minutes after post)

just ignore them. i know its hard but they cant tell you youre not “pretty enough, smart enough” etc.
i think youre really pretty! =)

the teachers tell you that?!?!

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xxmarylouxx offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (11 minutes after post)

Well. I guess I care a litte. not about fitting in with them or anything. But more like… I don’t like being called ugly etc. It’s more of a irritation.

And I try to ignore them. But it’s hard.
and no not the teachers, the teacher’s kids.
Our school is swarming with them.

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Anubis offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (12 minutes after post)

If ‘friends’ tell you this, you need to realise they are not your friends.
You need to be yourself and stop worrying too much about what others think.
It sounds like envy on their behalf to me.

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1 year ago (14 minutes after post)

Who you are in high school doesn’t have to be who you’ll be in life. Those four years don’t even matter, you can do something totally big with your life and make them all jealous.

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Anubis offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (15 minutes after post)

Envious even. :)

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 152 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (16 minutes after post)

If I was a girl, I would want to be as georgeous as you!

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master.penguin100 offline Verified User (1 year, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (17 minutes after post)

another penguin, ELO THERE!!!……….lol

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xxmarylouxx offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (19 minutes after post)

*blushes* thanks littlenick. and thanks guys. I’ll try harder to ignore it. Hopefully it calms down soon.

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its a person!! offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (19 minutes after post)

hhmmmm…well i can at least assure you that you are definately not ugly…far from it:)!! but i’m getting the impression that its more tiring and wearing you out than actually making you feel like you are stupid or ugly. or i could be wrong…

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 152 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (20 minutes after post)

master.penguin100 wrote:
another penguin, ELO THERE!!!……….lol

Tell her she’s a beautiful girl! Hubba Hubba!

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xxmarylouxx offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (22 minutes after post)

That’s pretty much it “no one important” but thanks for the compliment.

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master.penguin100 offline Verified User (1 year, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (25 minutes after post)

yeh she is beautiful, anyone who thinks otherwise is blind

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xxmarylouxx offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (25 minutes after post)

*blushes* aww. you guys are sweet.

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its a person!! offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (32 minutes after post)

than i suppose all you can do is rise above it and try not to let it get to you! which is easier said than done. and remember highschool is only one small phase of life and the people there usually suck!:) hope you feel better soon!! good luck! xx

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mihrei offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (48 minutes after post)

I don’t think she is beautiful she is stunning. But i’m way to old to be saying that about a young lady. Reasons why people don’t fit are cause others r jealous of them

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valenewally offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (48 minutes after post)

I was the cast out in high school then one day I decked the football star that had been bothering me saying that I was a dog and saying woof woof noises. I had a history book in my purse and he was flattened. from that day I felt better about my self. take control of you out of the hands of others. you look great but its not what I think but what you think look in the mirror and tell yourself you are beautiful. I dont want you to think that a compliment from me will change your life. but a compliment from you about you will change you.

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Anonymous #
1 year ago (53 minutes after post)

hubba, hubba…this girl is sooooooooo gorgeous…i’d leave my name if she was out of h.s….

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xxmarylouxx offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 50 minutes after post)

Aw thank you =D

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An Unknown Location | 2 weeks, 2 days ago (1 year after post)

hello my name is hassan i live in belgium i wish to know you

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