Love help: hi im 20 and my girlfriend is 22 we have been together for 1 year and she has done it all so she wants to settle down and have a kid. - Help.com

hi im 20 and my girlfriend is 22 we have been together for 1 year and she has done it all so she wants to settle down and have a kid.

we love each other but this is my first girlfriend and first girl i have slept with. but she thinks i have been with heaps of girls and i never corrected her on this i may have even added 1 or 2 in there myself.
So i am not ready to settle down as i want to have a little bit more fun and experiment in the bedroom a little but she wont because she thinks i have done it all aswell. i would love to stay with her and do it all with her but she wont. should i just suck it up and settle down or break up with her.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (4 hours, 10 minutes after post)

Honestly mate… there’s never any way to know in these situations until after the fact. But… my opinion, stick with her. I was in a somewhat similar situation, I was madly in love with a girlfriend of 5 years but felt I needed to go out and see the world. It’s been 4 years now since I moved away and it still hurts just as badly as it did that first month.

If you know, like I knew, that this girl is right for you and that you could be happy together… and the only thing holding you back is the idea that you need to get out there and see other people before settling in… it’s what I did. I’ve had many relationships since that girl… not a one of them nearly as fulfilling as she was. You’ll find lots of things out there, but one thing that is amazingly rare… someone who fits you. If you need some more spice, talk to her, tell her the truth. Make it sweet and awkward, say you were intimidated and exaggerated your experience, play your cards right and she’ll be all about exploring things with you.

I’ll probably regret losing mine for the rest of my life… not saying it would turn out the same for you, but… be careful what you wish for.

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