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evansent 2008
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my siter sandra liked to have a drink or two

it got to the point drink was all she ever knew
she didnt smoke or do drugs,she was good in that sort of way
but i saw the signs she wouldnt listen to what i had to say
she just went ahead & got drunk every single night
seeing her that way gave me quite a fright
sandra was in deep in another land
she ignored evrything apart from the bottle in her hand
she would go mad if she couldnt have any beer
thats when people noticed sandra was in fear
last time she was with me she cried on my shoulder
she told me she was an alcoholic&i just had to hold her
now she has gone,theres nothing i can say
only how much i miss her each&everyday
so if your concerned about a relative who is drinking too much
just think of my sister sandra who now i can not touch

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Spangle offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (5 minutes after post)

I’m so sorry about your sister evansent2008. The poem is beautifully written. Alcoholism is so difficult to deal with. My best friend lost a dear uncle to alcoholism… the last stages of his life he was more determined than ever to get better but sadly it was too late. Peace be with her now x

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mumstheword offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 21 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (6 minutes after post)

(((( big hug ))))

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Spangle offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (7 minutes after post)

All Is Well
Death is nothing at all,
I have only slipped into the next room
I am I and you are you
Whatever we were to each other, that we are still.
Call me by my old familiar name,
Speak to me in the easy way which you always used
Put no difference in your tone,
Wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow
Laugh as we always laughed at the little jokes we enjoyed together.
Play, smile, think of me, pray for me.
Let my name be ever the household world that it always was,
Let it be spoken without effect, without the trace of shadow on it.
Life means all that it ever meant.
It it the same as it ever was, there is unbroken continuity.
Why should I be out of mind because I am out of sight?
I am waiting for you, for an interval, somewhere very near,
Just around the corner.
All is well.
Henry Scott Holland
1847-1918

Dedicated to Sandra x

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evansent 2008 offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (10 minutes after post)

aww thanks guys im ok
she drunk herself to death 15 yr ago

this was published in a book called voices on the wind

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Spangle offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (12 minutes after post)

I will also dedicate it to your parents also. She will be at peace with them now. Also I will look into finding that book.

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