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I’m hurting.

I was seeing this guy for about three months. I totally realize that the relationship was hectic and not in my best interest: he’s got depression, he’s a Sagittarius - he blew me off. I mean he stopped calling me and gave me the fadeaway.

I realize that he’s a jerk. I know what he did was mean and cruel. I’ve been NC for 5 days. Last night, we happened to be at the same location. I was not and did not approach him because NC means NC - besides - he gave me the fadeaway.

He ran. He covered his face with his popcorn and hid behind his little brother. I saw him choke on the popcorn as he saw me approach.

The worst part about this is … I still want him back.

So how does one recover from a fadeaway *******?

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mihrei offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 minute after post)

I know u are hurting i feel it from here. but this guy is a complete jerk. there is some1 out there for u

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1 year ago (3 minutes after post)

Just be glad you got to have that experience…

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Hybrid Theory offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (4 minutes after post)

first of all, stop using someone’s star sign as an excuse, he did that because thats how he is, not because his stars arent compatible with yours; he wont be less of a jerk for anyone else. Second, get over the jerk, if he blew you off and avoids you, its because he’s a wuss and hides from his problems, you don’t want a guy like that anyways.

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