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how do i break up with a boy…

ok so theres this guy named… BOB. lol and ive known hes liked me months ago but weve only been going out since tueseday. and he like seriously loves me. but all a sudden i just dont have feelings like that for him anymore. and the longer i wait the worse it will get. and i kinda just want to see other people.
he really fragile and sensitive too :( and i still want us to still be really good friends

can someone please gove me advice to end the relationship and still be his friend without totally breaking his heart??
if i can do that? lol

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Kanabi 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (4 minutes after post)

just tell him…very gently…that it doesnt feel right. Tell him he’s more like a brother to you. Be VERY gentle though

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (5 minutes after post)

you must tell him and soon. He will be hurt but the longer you wait the harder he will take it and if you wait to long you will have lost him as a friend

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (5 minutes after post)

Since Tuesday huh? He loves you already? Let me tell you how he might be feeling inside. First he is obsessed with you, if he already loves you. A person like this is truly blind. Your going to have to hurt his feelings, there is no way to escape it. The best thing to do is, let him know how you feel. Make him understand that the feeling is not mutual, and that you would really love for him to be a close friend. Let him know you still care for him, and you dont want to lose him. Good luck

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878786 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (10 minutes after post)

thanks everyone for the advice :)
its just so hard cuz i make him so happy :(

but im going to end it soon

thanks !!

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yerpal 7 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (17 minutes after post)

mister tony got it right, you aint the only dollar in the register honey, but dont spoil the boy for the next gal.
be firm but respectful

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lucif 7 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (31 minutes after post)

Mister Tony wrote:
Since Tuesday huh? He loves you already? Let me tell you how he might be feeling inside. First he is obsessed with you, if he already loves you. A person like this is truly blind. Your going to have to hurt his feelings, there is no way to escape it. The best thing to do is, let him know how you feel. Make him understand that the feeling is not mutual, and that you would really love for him to be a close friend. Let him know you still care for him, and you dont want to lose him. Good luck

True, you can’t be ‘really’ in love in such a short while.

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878786 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 2 minutes after post)

well no .. weve known each other for much longer but he just decided to ask me out tuesday…

its very complicated.. lol

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