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Ok so there is this girl and we got really close like talking about marriage close and she moved.

So we tried doing the long distance thing. Well that blew up in my face because I started liking someone else and ended up braking it off. Well me and the other girl broke up but for the past months I keep getting in these moods were I cant get her (girl that moved) out of my head and I will start talking to her again and trying to become friends again and then I will go off and stop talking and then a month later I will start over and I dont see why I keep this cycle going and she is a great girl and I dont want to lose her as a friend and I know I cant keep doing this because pretty soon she will just had enough and I dont blame her but how do I keep from blowing up. help

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RuleCandela offline Verified User (3 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 minute after post)

u better figure out if you want her before she’s gone forever because no normal person puts up with tht leaving and coming back i wouldnt.

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RuleCandela offline Verified User (3 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (2 minutes after post)

like u know it sucks with out her see if u 2 can move closer together or one move towards the other

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Brenda☆ツ offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (2 minutes after post)

yes.
figure out what you want..

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Joe236 offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (4 minutes after post)

well I know I want to be her friend but when I get as her friend I want to really close to her and I know that wont happen and I get really freaked and stop talking

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Brenda☆ツ offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (4 minutes after post)

well do u like her??

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Joe236 offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (5 minutes after post)

yes but I know it wont work because of the distance but i want it to work

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RuleCandela offline Verified User (3 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (6 minutes after post)

move closer to each other!

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Joe236 offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (7 minutes after post)

I cant not old enough

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RuleCandela offline Verified User (3 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (10 minutes after post)

how old are you, you look 30 in ur foto

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Joe236 offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (11 minutes after post)

16 lol

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RuleCandela offline Verified User (3 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (12 minutes after post)

oooh ooo0ops. get a web cam an like talk with her through tht. assert your feelings! and see where it goes from there ur biggest fear is her leaving with is the worst that happen when you try. but whats more horrible than that is not knowing. i hat enot knowing it kills me. talk to her ur 16 u have like 3847290347 more years try for her.

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Joe236 offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (14 minutes after post)

haha well yeah but I hurt her and she wont let me get close enough for anything and I blow the whole friend thing

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RuleCandela offline Verified User (3 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (20 minutes after post)

nothing is ever completely gone keep trying. like you might as well keep trying if u keep thinking about her. but if its to the point where its blatently obvious shes no longer interested try once more then move on , she wont be worth your time.

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Joe236 offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (20 minutes after post)

ok thanks

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