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My Pain = Total Pain in the world / No.

of living beings – My sacrifices + the pain caused me – The abuse suffered + the hatred spread.

One can reduce his pain by

Supporting life – Every life supported will ensure that there is an additional being alive to share your share of pain.

By not causing pain- There is already enough pain in the world please do not add to it by causing some more. Most pain is caused at home to ones own near & dear ones. Be soft in speech with neighbors, subordinates, colleagues etc. Remember any pain caused by harsh words will come back to you.

By sacrificing – A sacrifice can be by giving up some pleasure, giving up a habit, giving up a desire, giving up a asset small or big tangible or intangible etc. Every sacrifice lowers your assets but increases your living energy just as a balloon sheds weight so it can rise higher. When life itself is threatened why do you cling to material processions?

Abuse suffered – Every abuse thrown at you is transfer of karmic merit from the thrower accept it with gratitude for it comes at no cost.

Hatred Spread – Remember every day waves of pain are racing towards you from 4 corners of the world to surround and drown you and your family. Shield yourself by sending out the waves of love understanding and sympathy to others. There is no other way. Inertness will drown you.

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Nyxie offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (16 minutes after post)

that doesnt work with work politics. u just get more work to do

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tiny dancer offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 31 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (7 hours, 29 minutes after post)

wow I love the inherent balance and general math allusion. There is an equation out there. I love this post.

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uddipaya offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (8 hours, 40 minutes after post)

Every being has to live its share of pain. We suffer when we resist taking the daily dose of pain. Our daily resistance to pain postpones the moment of reckoning until we do not have sufficient strength to resist, than the pain will come back in a big chunk as a catastrophe. Good people suffer when they forget to pay the wages to live everyday.
Every breadth we take is on a loan which has to be paid. The good man is deluded into thinking that his goodness will fetch him a free lunch. The bad man is always guilty of his badness and try’s to compensate by selling his pain to others.

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uddipaya changed the tags on this post: they were "tourism, Pain and nociception, Love, life, Family, Sacrifice, Drowning, Wave, Being, world" 1 year ago.

tiny dancer offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 31 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (16 hours, 15 minutes after post)

you’re brilliant

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chunkymove offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (2 weeks, 6 days after post)

My experiences have lead me to disagree with a lot of your post, but thats just MPOV, but…

uddipaya wrote:
Every being has to live its share of pain. We suffer when we resist taking the daily dose of pain. Our daily resistance to pain postpones the moment of reckoning until we do not have sufficient strength to resist, than the pain will come back in a big chunk as a catastrophe. Good people suffer when they forget to pay the wages to live everyday.

That really rings true for me.
“Depression is casued by avoiding pain”

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uddipaya offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (3 weeks after post)

A humming bird beats its wings more than 50 times a second and eats 5 times its weight to finance the energy requirement, that is just to live. We are lucky we need not try so hard just to live because we live off the work of other creatures on the planet. Some day this will stop and we will be forced to live our life like a humming bird. Want to wait for that day?

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chunkymove offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (3 weeks after post)

beautiful, but….

Am I missing the point when I notice that a) the humming bird also eats “other creatures on the planet” and b) “Some day this will stop and we will be forced to live our life like a humming bird” has absolutely no reason to be more true than one day will turn in a pot of petunias.

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