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i inadvertently referred to me and my good guy friend as parents to a hypothetical child.

and he smiled at me, that was more than just a smile.

this has made me realize that i think we love each other, and we don’t even need to do anything about it.

it just is.

and it is good.

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Bogdan (Gone) offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (0 minutes after post)

That is awesome :D

Thanks for sharing.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (4 minutes after post)

very nice,,but a word of advise,,,dont let time run away,,do something about it,,tell him/her,,say it,,say it,,say it,,dont let fall away, love is too precious to waste, my grandfather told me once that he did not regret any of his failures,,he wasnt proud of his successses,,but,,he regreted the chances he did not take,,
dont miss a chance to be happy,say it out loud and take it from there:)
i wish you the best in all you do

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seas light offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (9 minutes after post)

Good for you!!! Love is bliss :)

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PollyinLove offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (24 minutes after post)

Awww I did something like that….Me and a friend were discussing his baby sister…And me moving back to Uk…ANd then I’m like…’I don’t want a family, i just want to live with Marley and look after a baby’ It was very funny!
xx

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deathlover offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (2 days, 10 hours after post)

well i say go for it a chance at love is wonderful

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beauty12 offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (2 days, 11 hours after post)

good for you
go with it!
dont let the opportunity slip by

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deathlover offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (2 days, 11 hours after post)

love is great up until it ends =’[

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beauty12 offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (2 days, 11 hours after post)

it is great
so try not to let it end
but if it does
its for a reason

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deathlover offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (2 days, 11 hours after post)

my girlfriend is trying to date my ex boyfriend so i kinda broke up with her because of it

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sahara offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (2 days, 11 hours after post)

oh man… well… true friendship prevails.

i dated a friend of mine’s crush - it was a terrible situation, but my friend was a good friend. she understood that we can’t really choose other people’s lives - they just happen. and she was there to help me through the break-up even — a good friend should.

i am sorry — but perhaps there are better friends out there. :)

and yes, my guy friend and i have spoken further on this topic and we are both excited about it. we are taking it slow - i just got out of a relationship that was slightly abusive, and he has never been in a real relationship - so we are going really slow - but it is wonderful. he is so understanding and kind. and patient and calm. :)

thanks for all the support.

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beauty12 offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (2 days, 11 hours after post)

wow that good that you broke it off
because she doesnt even seem like she would be a good friends eirther

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deathlover offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (2 days, 11 hours after post)

i regret it though because i really love her

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sahara offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (2 days, 11 hours after post)

well … be there for her. you obviously like the same kind of guys - and she is probably experiencing the same problems you faced while you were with that guy.

remove the heart ache and the emotion of it all… and understand that you guys have a lot in common and … help her if she needs it. explain to her that it hurt you - but you understand it. and if they end up together forever and happy - be happy for her. you don’t have everything in common! :)

i don’t know… maybe you could strike some sort of balance with her.

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deathlover offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (2 days, 11 hours after post)

it hurts me to hear that shes doing this but also i still love my ex boyfriend too

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sahara offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (2 days, 11 hours after post)

yea… that is such a crazy situation. it sounds like you are handling it fairly well… i mean, you don’t seem completely devastated which is good and right.

i am sorry to hear it. communication is usually what i tell people to do when they are desiring to reconnect with someone - but in this situation i am not sure its wise. silence might be golden in this case.

:) i suppose we just take it a day at a time…

and one day… things seem different even though we don’t know why.

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deathlover offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (2 days, 11 hours after post)

i cant talk to her without crying.

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beauty12 offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (2 days, 11 hours after post)

things will get better
in my opinion if there doing these types of thing to you
you should dump there sorry *****
your obviously a great person and you deserve better then both of them

i could kinda say i can relate to what your going trough
right now i feel like i could use a best friend and a boy friend more than anything right now just to help me through things
but you know things will get better
and these 2 people dont seem to be right for you
since they clearly cannot see how much they are hurting a great person like you

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deathlover offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (2 days, 11 hours after post)

its so confusing

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beauty12 offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (2 days, 12 hours after post)

always remember
‘if he/she breaks your heart once shame on him/her,
if he/she breaks your heart twice shame on you’

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deathlover offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (2 days, 12 hours after post)

ouch

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beauty12 offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (2 days, 12 hours after post)

its harsh
but i live by it
only not exactly
i never trust someone more than twice
i firgure if theyve lost it twice why should i put that injepordy again

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deathlover offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (3 days, 8 hours after post)

im better now i dumped her *** and i have a new boyfriend

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df104 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (3 days, 12 hours after post)

It’s nice to hear that type of story in all that is going on in today’s world.

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deathlover offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (5 days, 9 hours after post)

i guess

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sahara offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (5 days, 10 hours after post)

df104 wrote:
It’s nice to hear that type of story in all that is going on in today’s world.

Thanks… it feels good to have it… there are simple things in life to be grateful for, the point of being alive is finding them.

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beauty12 offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (5 days, 14 hours after post)

sahara wrote:

df104 wrote:
It’s nice to hear that type of story in all that is going on in today’s world.

Thanks… it feels good to have it… there are simple things in life to be grateful for, the point of being alive is finding them.

I think he meant deathlover’s story

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sahara offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (5 days, 17 hours after post)

ok then. :)

is sort of was my post to begin with… so sorry for the misunderstanding.

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beauty12 offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (6 days, 19 hours after post)

lol yeah sorry i was just saying…

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An Unknown Location | 8 months ago (5 months after post)

thanks for ******* it up for everyone else.

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An Unknown Location | 8 months ago (5 months after post)

i got screwed by my good chick friend because ******* like you think it is ok to have guy friends. **** YOU U FRIEND **** *******.

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An Unknown Location | 8 months ago (5 months after post)

sheered u wanka

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8 months ago (5 months after post)

people can’t screw you emotionally…
only you can do that…

sounds like your expectations were the problem.

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