Love help: i dont think my current boyfriend loves me anymore. - Help.com

thankyou very much. though if i ask him if he loves me, he might get angry with me because i’m doubting him :S

Don’t make it about him. It’s not about him anyway. It’s about YOU. You do not feel loved anymore. Why?… only you can say.

Talk to him - serious, all card on the table sort of communication… tell him how you feel, reassure him they are YOUR feelings.

I promise you… if you are indeed in a loveless relationship (except for your love) you are doing yourself more harm by staying in it. If it is a loveless relationship, the longer you are in it, the MORE painful it will be when it is over; guaranteed!

I don’t think you should hurt yourself over your boyfriend.. or for any reason. Why do you think he doesn’t love you? What do you think has changed?

is always blunt with me.. doesnt talk to me properly.. doesnt tell me he loves me anymore.. :S

How long have you been going out? It seems that over time he has just accepted he is with you and is happy. He probably feels he doesn’t have to ‘try’ to impress you now so just relaxes and acts normal. The honeymoon period is always full of “I love you’s and flowers” but then after a while guys (and girls) tend to let go a bit and just relax and be themselves. However if it feels more like friends or that the relationship isn’t that romantic - maybe you can ask him to do something that you did on your first date or when you first went out to bring back the romance. Tell him subtly “oh you know when we used to go to the skating park?..” or something along those lines (obviously if when you dated you didn’t go to a skating park don’t say this LOL). Then say “you know I’d really like to do that again sometime” and see how he responds. Through my experiences guys are a bit useless at keeping up with romance (I am generalising here a bit not all of them but majority LOL) whereas girls tend to think of it all the time and if the romance is there they think they are loved but when it isn’t there they think something is wrong. Whereas guys just think “ah we are friends, we get along.. of course she loves me and ofcourse she knows I love her”. However we need to give them a nudge every so often :-) Maybe suggest doing something you did when you both first met like I said and see what happens. I’m sure your man still loves you it’s just he can’t express it as well. Also my bf is blunt with me sometimes but I just tell him not to speak to me in such a manner because it bothers me and he usually shuts up LOL.