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oodle, are you the poster?

What does your girls say you have done?

What have you told her?

Any idea of why she thinks that?

Hello there oodle.

Women sometimes get depressed and need help from the doctor, when they are pregnant. Thinking of suicide is not going to help. What do you think you can do about this?

oodle wrote:
She thinks i lie, she thinks i cheat. I have never done these things. I am disgusted with people who even think about stuff like that.

I feel the sameway. Dude keep your head up, your not a cheater your not a lier. There are plenty of women out there who want men like you, your gold man GOLD! You know who you are, she doesnt believe you for some certain reason. If this was a normal relationship id say walk away, but there is a baby involved. If i were you, id sit her down, tell her i love her and let her know just how much you do. Let her know shes your only one, and show it to her man.

I think that if that is what you actually want. Then propose. But make sure you tell her that you are proposing because you think she is the most amazing woman on this universe and that you could not see yourself spending your life with someone else. (Don’t mention the baby unless she does). Emphasize that if it was not for her, you would not be the happiest man on this universe. Tell her that that if she did not exist, she would have to be invented just for you because you don’t see yourself proposing to anybody else in this universe. Tell her that she is the cause of your motivation to go on in this world and that you would be a better man if she accepted your proposal to spend the rest of your lives together!

I havent read all the replies so if needed you may have to remind me. I see mas’s reply and that may be the answer and I hope it is but just in case - when I read the post I see a red flag, You trying to make her happy all the time. from experience my husband (ex now) tried all he could to make me happy and it was never good enough and never would have been because I wasn’t happy with myself.So this is something to think about. If you think this is the case I highly suggest you give it some thought before taking any big steps. I will be happy to help you if..(since I have learned a lot from my experience ) and if you do go ahead I wish you 2 all the best :)