Person help: I can’t stop spoiling people. - Help.com

Mmmm…

Well that happens often…

You probably get angry at some point when you think of it, but you don’t say it?

Anonymous wrote:
Yeah, I just try to cover it up when I’m angry. When I have feelings for someone I just want them to feel perfect all the time… sounds a little creepy when I put it like that.

Well, as you can see, you are doing quite the opposite…

A relationship is based on mutual trust and communication…not telling things leads you to build up emotions inside, which one day explode and everything goes to hell…
Try some testing about spoiling and see how it goes, everyone is different, so you’ll need to know how to change strategies…and try to tell how you feel, if someone loves you, then he/she will feel well if you’re alright…

Anonymous wrote:
Thank you, I’ll try and change. I just don’t like saying how I feel cause it always just led to everything falling apart in the long run.

Well, it isn’t useful if you don’t solve the matter…but in a relationship everything is done by two =P

Then you can’t really tell since you don’t have any experience with the method I’ve just said to you…

Again, if you feel in a weird way, tell it, try to solve it, if the other person doesn’t do anything then he/she isn0t worthy of anything…if he/she cares then you’ll have to work out a solution together…

Any time!

Anonymous wrote:
I’m really bad at thank-yous…

lol, a thanks is enough xD