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does a fresh start in a new country help me conquer my issues if i start to try to conquer them?

,or is that just fooling myself.I know wherever i go ,my issues and problems will come too,but i want a fresh start wherre i can really focus on me.

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Yuniko offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (5 minutes after post)

It could help you, and it could make it worse.

In the end, all depends of you. If you move to run away from your problems, but do nothing to solve them, you will probably be haunted by your problems, they will be present, and of course moving away gives you some more: like possibly new language, cultural differences, the fact you will probably have no family and friends around.

If you decide to move, make sure you solve all of your problems before, so that your new life will have nothing but new life’s problems for you to care about. Of course, after solving your actual problems, you may find out there is no need to move. =)

I know it seems kind of complicated. But you should think very well about it.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (13 minutes after post)

Depends on the issues, your race, wealth, country of origin and destination….

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Sigurrós offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 57 minutes after post)

If it’s not about avoiding your problems. You can’t hide, so maybe seeking confrontation; fight your issues on new ground isn’t such a bad idea.

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Paul.todorovic offline Verified User (5 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (8 months, 1 week after post)

You cannot run away from yourself. While relocating and starting anew has a certain allure to it, the problems themselves remain with *you* … and as such need to be dealt with on a personal level (not an external one, like relocating).

What does that mean? It means alot of hard thinking time. Maybe even seeing a professional.

Best of luck,

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