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I resently got involved with someone that I figures to be different.

Usually I would have guarded my heart and wouldn’t have let myself fall so quickly. Three months and I love him… not “in love” per say, but still love all the same. He broke up with me lastnight, and I know of two reasons… 1: he’s still not over and is possibly still in love with his ex… fine whatever right… 2: he thinks I’m too much for him because of my past (which in the beginning I asked him if it mattered and he said no, that he didn’t care what I did… it’s in the past). I don’t like crying, but I did anyway. I should have never let myself get so out of control… but what could I do?… When you love someone, is it not ok anymore to ever fall? ;(

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Ξ.Ģäβž.Ξ offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (4 minutes after post)

Why does he have a problem with your past ?

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cloudlessworld offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (8 minutes after post)

if only we could have that much control over our heart and feelings! you should let yourself fall, i know its hard right now but one day it will work in your favour. the only losers in love i see are the ones who guard their heart too much and remain alone. i dont want to be one of them and im sure you dont either. maybe in time the two of you will work it out but you definately sound as though you need that time.

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Victoria Sponge offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
Fritwell, K2, GB | 1 year ago (54 minutes after post)

Honey sorry to hear that. Have you been able to speak to him about why he made this decision? You can get through this pain and learn to love, like cotton said don’t guard your heart we all go through pain thats how we can grown stronger

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