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Yuniko offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (2 minutes after post)

Well, I am a guy so I don’t get a guy to notice me.

But, I think I usually notice those girls that stand out from the rest by her intelligence, the way they act, the way they speak, the way they act and behave.

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Cell offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 64 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 1 year, 1 month ago (7 minutes after post)

Well, I resorted to tripping him in the hallway. He noticed me then. :)

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violawriter offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (10 minutes after post)

Raise your hand in class. He’ll notice you, but you don’t have to face him head-on, ‘cuz that’s nerve-wracking.

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southern_comfort offline Verified User (3 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (12 minutes after post)

Cell wrote:
Well, I resorted to tripping him in the hallway. He noticed me then. :)

Shame on you Cell! But nice touch…. Did you offer to heal his wounds?

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Yuniko offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (12 minutes after post)

violawrite wrote:
Raise your hand in class. He’ll notice you, but you don’t have to face him head-on, ‘cuz that’s nerve-wracking.

Now that’s a good one. I wish I knew that when I was in school.

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southern_comfort offline Verified User (3 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (16 minutes after post)

How tall are you? If you can wear heels in school try that. Guys like tall girls with long legs.

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Yuniko offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (17 minutes after post)

southern_comfort wrote:
How tall are you? If you can wear heels in school try that. Guys like tall girls with long legs.

Not all the guys. =)

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Cell offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 64 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 1 year, 1 month ago (18 minutes after post)

southern_comfort wrote:

Cell wrote:
Well, I resorted to tripping him in the hallway. He noticed me then. :)

Shame on you Cell! But nice touch…. Did you offer to heal his wounds?

He took the hint right away! Finally I got his attention! We were dating a short time later.

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Cell offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 64 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 1 year, 1 month ago (19 minutes after post)

Trust me, he so liked being tripped by me. It can be really hard to get a guy to notice you in a way that screams ‘hey, I LIKE you!’

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southern_comfort offline Verified User (3 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (24 minutes after post)

Cell wrote:
Trust me, he so liked being tripped by me. It can be really hard to get a guy to notice you in a way that screams ‘hey, I LIKE you!’

Beats banging his head into the dashboard, I guess.

LOL

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1 year, 1 month ago (34 minutes after post)

Yuniko wrote:
Well, I am a guy so I don’t get a guy to notice me.

But, I think I usually notice those girls that stand out from the rest by her intelligence, the way they act, the way they speak, the way they act and behave.

wat kind of behviors do u mean

but if im around my friends he say that they are laughin and im not would he think that this girl must be diffrent then them

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violawriter offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (35 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:

Yuniko wrote:
Well, I am a guy so I don’t get a guy to notice me.

But, I think I usually notice those girls that stand out from the rest by her intelligence, the way they act, the way they speak, the way they act and behave.

wat kind of behviors do u mean

but if im around my friends he say that they are laughin and im not would he think that this girl must be diffrent then them

He might just think you’re brooding/unhappy.

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Yuniko offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (42 minutes after post)

Yeap, I would probably think what violawriter said.

By behaviour (maybe a bad choice of word), I mean really how she acts. There are too many shallow girls in the world, that act if all that matters are them. Of course, there are always the clown type of girls, which I absolutely hate (many guys like that). Personally I think shy girls are cute, but that is just me.

But don’t try to show something that really isn’t you, he would probably find out later and that would not be a good think. Of course you need to get noticed first, and I think both Cell and violawrited methods would definitively work. =)

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1 year, 1 month ago (44 minutes after post)

Yuniko wrote:
Yeap, I would probably think what violawriter said.

By behaviour (maybe a bad choice of word), I mean really how she acts. There are too many shallow girls in the world, that act if all that matters are them. Of course, there are always the clown type of girls, which I absolutely hate (many guys like that). Personally I think shy girls are cute, but that is just me.

But don’t try to show something that really isn’t you, he would probably find out later and that would not be a good think. Of course you need to get noticed first, and I think both Cell and violawrited methods would definitively work. =)

lol clown type lol da goofy ones lol
so why do u thnk shy girls are cute

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Yuniko offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (49 minutes after post)

LOl that’s a good question.

Probably because I am a little shy myself, and feel a little awkward in groups were everyone talks a lot and stuff. Anyway, if there is a girl shy in the group I usually notice her right away and if I have to talk with someone, she would be my choice.

Plus, I like to know new people, so why not someone shy like me?

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Anonymous #
1 year, 1 month ago (55 minutes after post)

do u believe that a guy can flirt with a girl and still be shy around them hmmm lol

also y must a guy say hi wen there friend is around
but wen no friend is around they act like they dont notice

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Yuniko offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 1 minute after post)

Well, the only ones I met that would say hi when a friend was around, but say nothing when there was no-one, were jerk ones. Maybe just to brag “hey, look the girls I know”? lOl. It wouldn’t be the first seen doing it, wouldn’t be the last…

Why can’t a guy flirt a girl and still be shy? If the girl is also shy, he may feel a little more confortable. =O)

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Anonymous #
1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 6 minutes after post)

must be a expert lol
u answerin da right way

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Anonymous #
1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 7 minutes after post)

if a guy is always flirting do u thnk a girl should give them a chance

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Yuniko offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 hour, 10 minutes after post)

LOl, not and expert and not even close! I’m just being honest about what I think. :)

I think no one should give a chance to someone only because the other person is always flirting… That girl has feelings for the guy?

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Je ne sais pa offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 166 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (15 hours, 9 minutes after post)

well unless he likes u or know u like him and he’s a nice guy well he’ll make a move all else some guys are jerks when u think u like them and well they end up playing u but how shy are u and hold old are u

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Anonymous #
1 year, 1 month ago (16 hours, 29 minutes after post)

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Je ne sais pa offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 166 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (3 days, 11 hours after post)

um your pretty old. not offending. but i don’t meet much shy girls. well not true i’m like that when i really like a guy

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