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Ideas?

so im looking for ideas for things to do with my girlfriend..umm we went to the movies, out to lunch, i went over her house last friday…umm yeah, just suggestions. im thinking friday afternoon maybe, or later saturday. we’re both 14. please and thanks.

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Nante offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 29 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (6 minutes after post)

Hate to get off topic, but this is that same girl from some of your other post?

Bravo!

anyway, I dont know what she would like uh…

Picnic?

Thing about teenage dating is after a while there arent alot of places to go…

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bluflames83 offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (8 minutes after post)

Nante wrote:
Hate to get off topic, but this is that same girl from some of your other post?

Bravo!

anyway, I dont know what she would like uh…

Picnic?

Thing about teenage dating is after a while there arent alot of places to go…

umm ive had more than one girl in my other posts, but this is the one that was called kathy, if you were there..
and a picnic is kind of hard when it was snowing last week…

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Cell offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 54 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 1 year ago (9 minutes after post)

Bowling. Or play Wii together. Or go for a walk, if it’s not too chilly.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (12 minutes after post)

Cell wrote:
Bowling. Or play Wii together. Or go for a walk, if it’s not too chilly.

our bowling alley is kind of, umm not the best place…you dont think playing wii with your girlfriend is weird?? where to walk?? we kind of did that before..

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Cell offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 54 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 1 year ago (16 minutes after post)

Like not the best place in what way?

Walk to a park?

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miss_enigma offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (19 minutes after post)

What if you cooked for her? Any good at that? Could be fun if you made something together.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (21 minutes after post)

Cell wrote:
Like not the best place in what way?Walk to a park?

like theres nothing around it, not even side walks. it was closed for a while and just re-opened a couple months ago, and they’re still redoing things…it may be closed for winter. its completely empty and they play bad music.. not as bad as you probably imagined..
ummm a park…not really interesting is it?? it has swings…i dont know, maybe im missing it..

miss_enigma wrote:
What if you cooked for her? Any good at that? Could be fun if you made something together.

lq2m….im hoping that was a joke..

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Cell offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 54 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 1 year ago (23 minutes after post)

No making something together is a GREAT idea. She would love that!

Also, why not try volunteering together?

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Nante offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 29 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (24 minutes after post)

Cooking is an awesome idea!

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miss_enigma offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (24 minutes after post)

Well it could be dang funny if neither of you can cook! Think of the laughs, a real ice breaker hehehe.

What about skating? Any rinks open around you? Indoor pools? Mini putt?

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (24 minutes after post)

Thanks guys :)

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Cell offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 54 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 1 year ago (24 minutes after post)

Swimming is a GREAT idea, too!

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miss_enigma offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (25 minutes after post)

Some hotels have indoor pools, gyms and hot tubs you can use by the day.

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Nante offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 29 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (25 minutes after post)

Cell wrote:
Swimming is a GREAT idea, too!

he said it was cold…

then again, you’d get a chance to warm her up ;)

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Cell offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 54 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 1 year ago (26 minutes after post)

in an indoor pool

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bluflames83 offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (26 minutes after post)

making something…i make things like hydrogen from water, and electric transformers..
i dont really like swimming :/

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Nante offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 29 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (28 minutes after post)

Did you ask her where she wanted to go?

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (29 minutes after post)

Nante wrote:
Did you ask her where she wanted to go?

ok, i havent but i can guarantee the answer is “i dont know”….how would you ask someone that anyway??

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miss_enigma offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (29 minutes after post)

You could go play at a musical instrument store.

Hang around the mall, crash a wedding :)

Pretend to camp in the recreation section of Walmart.

Go karts?

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Cell offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 54 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 1 year ago (30 minutes after post)

Like this: “So what would you like to do?”

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Nante offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 29 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (32 minutes after post)

bluflames83 wrote:

Nante wrote:
Did you ask her where she wanted to go?
ok, i havent but i can guarantee the answer is “i dont know”….how would you ask someone that anyway??

Cell wrote:
Like this: “So what would you like to do?”

Yep

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (33 minutes after post)

miss_enigma wrote:
You could go play at a musical instrument store.Hang around the mall, crash a wedding :)Pretend to camp in the recreation section of Walmart.Go karts?

lq2m…never heard of playing at a musical instrument store, could be fun but we might get kicked out..and i really dont think we have one in my city..
we have hung around two different malls. crash a wedding!!?!?? i hate walmart.. and im not sure if go karts would be open now…

Cell wrote:
Like this: “So what would you like to do?”

wow…duh! thanks, oddly i hadnt thought of that, but i dont know, i hate to pin thinking on other people…

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Cell offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 54 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 1 year ago (35 minutes after post)

Make/buy Christmas gifts for people together.

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Nante offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 29 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (37 minutes after post)

Umz

throw a party!

Scuba diving?

R4ead to people at the local senior center?

Maybe you guys could get some friends together and you all go out?

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Cell offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 54 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 1 year ago (39 minutes after post)

Movies can be fun.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (40 minutes after post)

Cell wrote:
Make/buy Christmas gifts for people together.

thats not weird…

Nante wrote:
Umzthrow a party!Scuba diving?R4ead to people at the local senior center?Maybe you guys could get some friends together and you all go out?

i cant throw a party, parents. no place to scuba dive, and its november remember?? lq2m…would you take your girlfriend to read to old people?? if we get friends together, we are still wondering what to do, right??

Cell wrote:
Movies can be fun.

been to the movies..

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Nante offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 29 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (49 minutes after post)

Hmmm

Well you could always go to the movies again..

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (55 minutes after post)

Nante wrote:
Hmmm

Well you could always go to the movies again..

yeah…but we had watched movies at her house too..

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Nante offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 29 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 4 minutes after post)

I see..

Resturaunt?

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 5 minutes after post)

Nante wrote:
I see..Resturaunt?

uhh we went out to lunch once…and she doesnt eat much..

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Nante offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 29 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 5 minutes after post)

Darnit…

sorry im all out :(

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 8 minutes after post)

Nante wrote:
Darnit…sorry im all out :(

yeah thats ok, you can see why i was having trouble..

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The beat goes on offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 11 minutes after post)

wow. what happened to talking. walking. kissing. reading to the younger brother. moving slowly and deliberatly and smelling the roses.

Scuba diving and throwing a party are a bit excessive.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (20 hours, 11 minutes after post)

world wanderer wrote:
wow. what happened to talking. walking. kissing. reading to the younger brother. moving slowly and deliberatly and smelling the roses.

Scuba diving and throwing a party are a bit excessive.

yeah imagine this…”hey, i was wondering if you wanted to come over my house so we can kiss excessively” im sure her parents would love that.. i dont like my little brother, she doesnt have one.. its cold, roses are dead..

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Cell offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 54 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 1 year ago (20 hours, 49 minutes after post)

Seriously, ask her what she would like to do.

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