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next week will be a hard week for me. 1) because on Mon its my ex’s Birthday 2)on the Sunday it would have been our first full year together i’m just preparing for it now any advice to get me throw the week without me cracking up please

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Da⌐11 offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (3 minutes after post)

act as if it doesnt bother you.

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stuck offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (5 minutes after post)

Da⌐11 wrote:
act as if it doesnt bother you.

i wont see him im gonna go out my way to avoid him. I just mean for me how can i forget cause once i get the urge to contact him its hard to shake it off

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artistguy offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (5 minutes after post)

hey, stuck, happened to see your post…can you plan something with friends to go out somewhere and stay busy? Don’t stay home by yourself and sulk - it will only make things worse - believe me, I know from personal experience! oh, and try treating yourself to something special, clothes, etc…and look at yourself and tell yourself that you are someone special because you are!…

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zoo_baw offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (7 minutes after post)

buy yourself a wii system and play all day long perhaps?

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stuck offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (8 minutes after post)

zoo_baw wrote:
buy yourself a wii system and play all day long perhaps?

i already have a wii

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stuck offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (9 minutes after post)

artistguy wrote:
hey, stuck, happened to see your post…can you plan something with friends to go out somewhere and stay busy? Don’t stay home by yourself and sulk - it will only make things worse - believe me, I know from personal experience! oh, and try treating yourself to something special, clothes, etc…and look at yourself and tell yourself that you are someone special because you are!…

and thanks yeah. might see if they wanna go out dunno if they will cause we only went out last weekend money is tighttttt

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zoo_baw offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (12 minutes after post)

ok… then, what about marathon sessions of friends and will & grace seasons?

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deadend-girl offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (13 minutes after post)

Break ups are hard especailly trying to cut off the urges to call the other person. I’ve been there too. Stay busy and try to have some fun with the girls. You said money is tight but go to the mall try on goofy outfits or rent some movies to get your mind off him. Sooner or later things will change and he’ll realize what he’s lost!

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artistguy offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (13 minutes after post)

tell him/her/them that you desperately need their help and company even if you don’t go anywhere to spend money - there are a lot of free things you can do…and then realize that time will be the great healer and that grieving is unfortunately a part of living sometimes - oh, and I have found that hard, vigorous exercise helps - not only does it get you mind off of him, it releases stuff into the brain that can lift your spirits…try it! you’re worth it!…

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zoo_baw offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (16 minutes after post)

artistguy wrote:
it releases stuff into the brain that can lift your spirits…try it! you’re worth it!…

yeah, i think it’s called endorphin… or “runner’s high”

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