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I love someone and she is 7000 miles away and i cant get to her.

I need help to be with her.

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Take.Ur.Time offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (6 minutes after post)

Well, did u meet her online? Or is she someone that just moved away

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Adrenaline! offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (10 minutes after post)

Or is she 7000 mental-miles away? :o

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Sasha101 offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (28 minutes after post)

Long distance relationships seldom work out, and lead to a lot of frustration and heartbreak, sad to say but very true. Sometimes they can work out, but they need a lot of dedication and trust. Finances will play a huge part to, if you can afford the air fare to jet back and forth well great, but many cant these days. Sorry to be a barer of bad tidings, but just being honest :-)

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (49 minutes after post)

Be careful here. It can get extremely tricky and extremely tough. Like Sasha said, you need to have a lot of dedication trust, and a whole lot of bearing down and grinding your teeth. It’s a lot of work.

However, your question here was saying that you need to see her, does she feel the same way about you? Would she come to you, or you to her? If either of those scenarios are an option…I’d start saving. Travel is extremely expensive, especially these days. Make sure you know what you’re getting yourself into, too.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 6 minutes after post)

thank you all i met her on line and she was welling to travel but she had an accedent and i want to go there but my problem is i got denied a visa…
if i get one ill travel on the next flight available

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 15 minutes after post)

In most cases, you shouldn’t need a Visa just to travel or visit. May I ask what country you’re in and which she’s in?

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 18 minutes after post)

Im from jordan and she from the united states

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 20 minutes after post)

Ah, well you shouldn’t actually need a Visa unless you are planning to work/study there and/or be there for more than 3 months. I’m heading to the US myself in a few months and I don’t need a Visa. However, coming from Jordan might be different. Have you spoken with a travel agent?

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 23 minutes after post)

ive been in the us before 8 times actually but i never been lucky to meet her and actualy im cursed to be banned from traveling there because i over stayed my last visit.
baisicly i need a miracle to go there and be with her

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 27 minutes after post)

Ah, then that might be why you’re having to apply for a Visa to get back. Unfortunately, I’m not sure what advice to give you in that situation. Perhaps if you talk to a lawyer to try and establish Visa rights, and to see if there is a way you can negotiate another entry?

U.S security is tough, I’m afraid. It’s not as easy to get into the country as it used to be. So you may come across a lot of issues. But if you go through the right process you might be able to find some solution.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 28 minutes after post)

thank you
i might just do that and contact a lawyer

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 33 minutes after post)

You’re welcome. I wish you the best of luck. Also, if you can, perhaps to speak to someone at the US Embassy in Jordan, they might be able to tell you what you can doing further than a lawyer, and possibly even help your case a bit more.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 42 minutes after post)

I hope it all works out for you! Ifu don’t mind me asking..how did u all like meet? I kno online but like where l0l..im always interested in that kind of stuff

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