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Please someome help me!

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i have been seeing a guy for over a year now, its nothing serious. I really like him and we have a great time together. I wont go into detail but basically i cant have children, well…im not ment to be able too. But i just found out im pregnant, and this guy is the father! i was soo thrilled to be pregnant but i dont have a clue what he will say or do. He is 20, the same age as me. i want to keep my baby, but i dont know if i should. I dont know wether to tell him or what to do?!?!

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evansent:) offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 726 #
GB | 1 year ago (2 minutes after post)

congratulations………..:)

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master.penguin100 offline Verified User (1 year, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (3 minutes after post)

you have to tell him, you cant keep it a secret, he will find out, you never know he might be very happy and well you get a happy ending, i hope for ya sweety
congratulations!!!

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shannon.larse offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (7 minutes after post)

Okay, 1st. tell him you really like love , respect blah blah but you have news.. if he takes it good let him know you appreciate it. let him know that even though you are keeping it there are options still. i just had a baby abd all the worries go away after the child is born…
if he takes it the wrong way just let go and get somewhere happy. you don’t need stress. handle his bad reaction some other time…

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kellypuse offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (7 minutes after post)

U must tell him, u never know he might be happy,

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xXxJessica offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (11 minutes after post)

That’s fantastic news.. but you know the right thing to do, tell him..
And say it just like you said it to us.. your not sure what to do explain you don’t want to get into a big argument over this, you just want to think about a lot of idaes first of what to do,, blah blah dont freak out…
Does he know your not ment to get pregnant?

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k4kieron offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 16 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (21 minutes after post)

Life is precious I was born to a father who wanted me aborted and disowned me at birth. I was born clinically dead. My mother brought me up alone and in hardship but it was great. She loved me. As a mother this is a choice you need to face. Life as you know it being forever different. A child is for life. Theres and yours will be filled with choice. Try and make the one that you know is right for you. Dont expect anyone to hand it to you easy. It will be rewarding though but hard.

Kieron.

Good luck. Its your free will that will decide.

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www.kimbel offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (19 hours, 29 minutes after post)

If he realy cares about you then you don,t have to be worried at all.And don,t do anything stupid.

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k4kieron offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 16 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 day, 22 hours after post)

Nothing is stupid its an exploration of the unknown and known. It is conquering that fear. Be warned, you live with the consequences of your choice. Do what you want and can live with, which is everything…You lead your own path.

Well wishes
Kieron

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