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I would like to see more equality with women.

I am an home activist that clearly believes in womens rights.

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Anubis offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 minute after post)

Unclear - are you male or female? I assume male.

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Former_User offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 22 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 minute after post)

With women or for women?
Oh and which country are you in?

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sahara offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (1 minute after post)

how do you feel we (women) are being treated unfairly?

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Anubis offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (2 minutes after post)

Or does he mean he wants to be aqual to women, which is how I read it?

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alistair2000 offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (3 minutes after post)

I am male thank you :) From the UK I feel women are used as objects and looked upon as inferior.

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sahara offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (4 minutes after post)

do women not look at men as objects to play with, as well, sometimes?

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Anubis offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (4 minutes after post)

What do you mean by ‘home activist’? It is not a phrase I have come across before.

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alistair2000 offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (5 minutes after post)

home activist is someone who works individually on different campaigns

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sahara offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (6 minutes after post)

i honestly don’t see a lot of inequality these days.

do you have any first hand examples that could help me understand your point of view?

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Former_User offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 22 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (7 minutes after post)

It’s not a perception I’ve come across much - you’ll always get a few idiots whether racist or chauvanistic but it doesn’t seem somthing ingrained in English culture. In fact due to equality legislation if you’re going for a government job (police/fire/counsel/forces) you’re more likely to get the job sometimes they even advertise for women, homosexuals and ethnic minorities only. Aside for that slight bias towards women I can’t think of any way tjhey are treated unequaly - except by the small group of idiots of course but you can always find someone who hate you whichever gender you are.

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Anubis offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (10 minutes after post)

I’m a feamle from the UK, and I agree with Steve. We have come a long way here. And im my profession I find no discrimination. I have equal pay and conditions.

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Anubis offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (10 minutes after post)

*female*

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (11 minutes after post)

Glad to hear it Anubis

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (11 minutes after post)

I know this country has come a long way but I am also talking about internationally.

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Anubis offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (12 minutes after post)

I am also a union activist, which is why I am interested in your phrase ‘home activist’ as I haven’t come across it here.

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alistair2000 offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (12 minutes after post)

hi michelle

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micheller327 offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (12 minutes after post)

i think alistair is talking about human rights

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Former_User offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 22 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (12 minutes after post)

So what issues in particular are you concerned about & as an activist what are you doing about it and what do you think the rest of us should do?

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alistair2000 offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (13 minutes after post)

yes thanks michelle

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micheller327 offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (13 minutes after post)

and equality we are both trying to set up a group in norwich

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miss_enigma offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (13 minutes after post)

I think there are undercurrents that would suggest a perception of women as inferior by ~some~ males. Mind you I have been blessed enough to meet some real jerks. Not in the work place specifically but in life in general. An intolerance and fear of the emotion women tend to be capable of, the power of a strong woman…rather intimidating to some of the standing to pee persuasion, in my experience.

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micheller327 offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (13 minutes after post)

about human trafficking we dont expext people to do anything but support are aims a

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alistair2000 offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (14 minutes after post)

Write and be a pain to the local MP and what I would like to do is set up events educate the public about what the victims of trafficking go through.

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Anubis offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (15 minutes after post)

Although, in my union role, I have met some discrimination. It’s as if the only way to defeat my arguments agains management bullying etc is to demean me as a woman.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (15 minutes after post)

yes this is what helps change things

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alistair2000 offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (15 minutes after post)

I love the power of a strong woman.

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Anubis offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (16 minutes after post)

Maybe that is a separate issue!

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micheller327 offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (16 minutes after post)

why do you demean a women two wrongs dont make a right if you are being bullied then bring it up with your bossess

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alistair2000 offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (16 minutes after post)

Sadly Anubis you will do as in the union this is and has been a male dominated area.

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miss_enigma offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (17 minutes after post)

Anubis wrote:
Although, in my union role, I have met some discrimination. It’s as if the only way to defeat my arguments agains management bullying etc is to demean me as a woman.

That’s what I mean also a total disregard for the respect that a woman’s body should have. I think we demean ourselves by subscribing to some of that as well.

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micheller327 offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (17 minutes after post)

alistair you still here?

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miss_enigma offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (17 minutes after post)

alistair2000 wrote:
I love the power of a strong woman.

That’s great to hear :)

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micheller327 offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (18 minutes after post)

yes especially men but some women do choose to get involved in the industry and are unaware of what goes on

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alistair2000 offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (18 minutes after post)

Respect is one of the things gone out of the window from most male perspectives. I know this is not going to be a popular note I have made.

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alistair2000 offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (19 minutes after post)

Thank you Miss Enigma. Appreciate that. :)

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (19 minutes after post)

i think you are right but there are also women who dont respect either

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micheller327 offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (19 minutes after post)

going to go now alistair

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Anubis offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (19 minutes after post)

alistair2000 wrote:
Sadly Anubis you will do as in the union this is and has been a male dominated area.

Not in the union, the union I work for is the most accepting non-discriminatory company ever! No the management I meet when representing members. When faced by the ‘enemy’ they try to demean me. One spent several meetings calling me by the wrong name to try to upset me! haha didn’t work.

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Anubis offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (21 minutes after post)

miss_enigma wrote:

Anubis wrote:
Although, in my union role, I have met some discrimination. It’s as if the only way to defeat my arguments agains management bullying etc is to demean me as a woman.

That’s what I mean also a total disregard for the respect that a woman’s body should have. I think we demean ourselves by subscribing to some of that as well.

What do you mean? I dress incredibly professionally, suited and booted, no issue at all. Or do you mean something different.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (22 minutes after post)

Good to hear Anubis. I mis-understood thanks. It is important not to let these people bring you down and I am glad that you don’t.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (23 minutes after post)

ok michelle

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (24 minutes after post)

I too have to make a move but would like to continue chatting with everyone here later. Thanks:)

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Anubis offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (24 minutes after post)

Thanks, no problem. I just keep getting confused because my real name is Michelle!

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (26 minutes after post)

Oh, ok. It has been very nice chatting Michelle. Maybe again later.

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Sandgate, G5, GB | 1 year, 1 month ago (37 minutes after post)

go to saudi arabia, Egypt or iran and then ull see womens rights, NOT.

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