Love help: how can i be happy when my family aways say things that hurts me? - Help.com

i know it’s really hard. i’m the exact same way. and i was actually going to kill myself and i am still thinking about it but, i’m starting too see that life gets better, you just have too keep working your way through it. don’t think so negitively. ty and stay positive even if it’s hard too find those positives.
i’m sure there are people that care about you. just don’t kill yourself! please stay with it and hold on, you’ll find a way out of this darkness (besides taking your life)

I am happy now, with one i love to, and i feel sure he do, too. but, when i think in the moment he could leave me, i just cut it up; and start to think how happy, i am right now. I was readin your post, and i just realized that we are not able to take control of our life, so, how could we control others? no way!! People chage their mind very quick, but i’m tell you about one i got in my heart, a long time ago; his name is JESUS. He never left me, and when i lost my first love, my everythign, i saw jesus bisides me, he came and made me feel special, and gave streng to wait for anotherone whose i’ll never separate. So now, tell jesus how bad you feel, even if he knows it, but just to make sure, you are giving him part in your path. Love is not something to ask for, it’s something to give. So if you are full of love, you start to bring it to all. Not just to those you want to be with, but those whom want to be with you, most of them, will never let you know they need you, but they do; if one leaves you, it’s not that you are not important nor special, it’s that maybe they are affraid to break your heart, cause you had showm you are too fragile.

Don’t be an empty basket, be a very friutful tree, trying to rase nations and kingdoms.

i know how you feel and it’s hard, everything seems like crap and you feel so isolated and lonely.its like noone understands you and it feels like noone cares. It’s hard and there’s no one solution to fix the problem.life’s hard and knocks you round like a boxing match.but like jayde said you just got to start off small and see one thing positive in your life and work from there.its about changing your focus from negativity to positivity. the more you think about the negative stuff the more you dig the hole deeper. but we all know it’s alot easier said than done.