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Ok so i finally got my first boyfriend.

YAY sorta. i like him but not like he likes me and at some moments i dont feel like i like him at all. and now an old friend (we’ll call him number 2) kinda re-painted him self in my picture. i really REALLY like 2 but i cant just leave my current(number 1). i know i cant be with 2 cause of a big age difference but at some moment number 1 can be really sweet and he talked to my mom ACTUALLY TALKED AND HAD A CONVERSATION and now he’s supposed to come over this weekend (sucks for me cause i wanted to go to the movies with the girls but oh well now) but other times i just wanna jump off a cliff just to get away from him!! i dont know what to do now and i feel like crying so if you can just tell me it’s gonna be ok would you plz? i just give up on trying now.

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peaceluvsoccer offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (7 minutes after post)

its cool just tell him to lay off i like you but i need some space i have other friends to and sometimes i need some girl time

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (8 minutes after post)

omg hun i went thru the same thing just recently, except i didnt have another guy i liked i just wanted to be single. The guy i wasnt sure i liked im still with at the moment and have been for a month yesterday. i thought he was sweet but really strange at first. but i gave him a chance and he felt more like my boyfriend. i think cuz we have been dating for a while he has gotten more comfortable around me so hes less weird. but after giving him a chance andbeing with him for a while and he has grown on me nd now i really like him. i say just give him a chance for like a week or so nd see how u feel then. if u still dont like him then break up but if u start to have feelings for him then see where it goes. good luck

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!!!Chickiki8!!! offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (14 minutes after post)

woahkitty9 wrote:
omg hun i went thru the same thing just recently, except i didnt have another guy i liked i just wanted to be single. The guy i wasnt sure i liked im still with at the moment and have been for a month yesterday. i thought he was sweet but really strange at first. but i gave him a chance and he felt more like my boyfriend. i think cuz we have been dating for a while he has gotten more comfortable around me so hes less weird. but after giving him a chance andbeing with him for a while and he has grown on me nd now i really like him. i say just give him a chance for like a week or so nd see how u feel then. if u still dont like him then break up but if u start to have feelings for him then see where it goes. good luck

it was a month on noverber 3rd

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woahkitty9 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 25 minutes after post)

yea

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!!!Chickiki8!!! offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (23 hours, 20 minutes after post)

woahkitty9 wrote:
yea

i ment me and my boyfriend!!

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scaytlin offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 1 week ago (3 months, 2 weeks after post)

hun i went thru the same thing just recently, except i didnt have another guy i liked i just wanted to be single. The guy i wasnt sure i liked im still with at the moment and have been for a month yesterday. i thought he was sweet but really strange at first. but i gave him a chance and he felt more like my boyfriend. i think cuz we have been dating for a while he has gotten more comfortable around me so hes less weird. but after giving him a chance andbeing with him for a while and he has grown on me nd now i really like him. i say just give him a chance for like a week or so nd see how u feel then. if u still dont like him then break up but if u start to have feelings for him then see where it goes. good luck

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An Unknown Location | 8 months ago (4 months, 3 weeks after post)

im going thru the same thing! you are not alone! i say give him a while and if then he is still getting on your nerves, talk to him. you dont have to break up with him just give him a chance because if he really likes you hell change.

hope it helped!

eliza

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