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I have been devorced for 9 years now.I think about

my exwife every day,i can’t get over her.I love her so much.I been in other relationships since my devorce,but i compare them all to her.I wish i could go on.I hate feeling this way.

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 152 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (2 minutes after post)

9 years is a long time to be obsessing over an ex-wife! Wow!

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Dragon_Lady offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (2 hours, 57 minutes after post)

Delta Dawn, what’s that flower you have on….

You need to move on. A counsellor can help you sort out why you’re still stuck, and help you to let go of your feelings for her.

Mind you, some part of you will always love her. But you have to be able to close that chapter and begin a new one with a fresh, clean page.

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tonyNZ offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (4 hours, 24 minutes after post)

i feel for you man shes got quite a hold on you. hopefully u can find a way to let go completely

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