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i’m only 15 and i’m really scared, could anyone please tell me the safest form of abortion?

i really need to no and soon. i have no other choice then 2 get rid of the baby so please please dont try to talk me out of it. i just need to no wat the safest option is :(

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justbecause offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (4 minutes after post)

Have you considered just having the child and putting it up for adoption?

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (9 minutes after post)

i cant :’( my mum doesn’t know my boyfriend says i have to get rid of it an how can i face people if i they know? my life will be over an all i’ve ever wanted was to grow up and have a family

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (10 minutes after post)

Ok here is what you need to do. You need to call Kids Help Phone or something along those lines. What country do you live in?

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (14 minutes after post)

australia

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (16 minutes after post)

Ok can you give me a minute or two and I will give you a link and a phone number to call? Are you somewhere that you can make a phonecall without your mom or anyone else overhearing?

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (17 minutes after post)

yes im alone

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (18 minutes after post)

ok good

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (19 minutes after post)

I’m looking up the number as we speak ok?

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (20 minutes after post)

thankyou

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (22 minutes after post)

Ok I think our phone numbers here in Canada are a bit different. Does 1-800-55-1800 make sense for an Australian number? This is for Kids Help Line. They will tell you all about your opions and just ask them for the closest abortion centers in your area. They are very helpful.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (23 minutes after post)

Have you called anyone like Kids Help Phone about this before? When and how did you find out you’re pregnant? Are you 100 percent sure you are pregnant?

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (24 minutes after post)

im positive, i took a test twice. i’ll try calling them thankyou so much

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (31 minutes after post)

Ok. Well you are very responsible for taking the test twice. I think perhaps that in time you should tell your mum about this. But for now it is ok as long as you are doing what is best for you in dealing with the situation. By the way I think you are handling the situation very well and I am proud of you for calling the Help Line. They are very helpful and will assist you in making all the choices that are right for you. Best of luck! And don’t stress about this too much: It will all be alright. Your life will not be over, no matter what happens. This is just one of life’s many obstacles, and it happens to a lot of girls our age. Let me know how things go and if I can help you in any other way. There is also a Kids Help Phone website where you can leave a post just like you did on here, but professionals will answer and people who are knowledgable about abortions and your options. Much Love!

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 33 minutes after post)

Hey! How did things go?

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1 year ago (2 weeks, 1 day after post)

I had an abortion when I was 15. Worst Mistake Ever Made! But You Are Most Prob In A Different Situation Than I Was. Have The Medical Abortion It Does Less Harm To You. This Is When They Give You 1 Tablet And Then Insert 3 Into You. This Causes You 2 Have A Heavy Like Period With Some Short Quite Painful Tummy Cramps.

I Hope Everything Goes Well

xxxx

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 1 week ago (1 month, 2 weeks after post)

LOL

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An Undisclosed Location | 9 months ago (3 months, 3 weeks after post)

Dont kill the baby just keep it and take care of it,Change your mind,dont hurt him.think twise.

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