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ALWAYS BAD LUCK?

I can’t help the fact that I have always been a depressed person, always looking for answers but never finding a solution. I have seen a lot of this life, the good the bad, the two extremes. I don’t quite see where I belong in all of this, I have tried the good and I have tried the bad, I have even tried the middle ground but nothing seems to work. I have had my share of relationships and nothing has worked out for it to continue to the long run. I always think that my life will get better once I find that special someone. I keep thinking that as soon as I am with him, everything in life will be enjoyable and rosy, but where is that perfect someone? I don’t think he exists. I think I just made it up in my head that one day this person will come sweep me off my feet. Everyday is the routine day, the work, the nightlife, the usual hookups, but nothing seems enjoyable. I always end up going home alone to sleep in my bed. Id like to have something to look forward to in my day or my night, or at least share with someone the events of my day, but it seems impossible because I keep meeting the wrong people. Is it bad luck? Am I always going to have it? I can’t seem to find the answer again.

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seas light offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (8 minutes after post)

Seems a lot of people think they are walking around with a *blackcloud* following them. For some it may be. I think we can make our own happiness if we put our minds to it. Have you ever thought of volunteering a few hours of your time at your local hospital? The children’s ward, or another floor would really be good and rewarding for your self esteem. This also would allow you to meet some new friends out of your normal routine. Nothing feels better then giving of yourself and helping the less fortunate. Who knows, you may just meet your one and only there. Just something you can consider. Good luck :)

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southern_comfort offline Verified User (3 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (9 minutes after post)

“If it weren’t for bad luck, I’d have no luck at all.”

You keep on doing the same thing over and over again yet expect a different result. If you want to find love you have to give love back. Find something that is rewarding for you to do. Doing the same bar scene or parties night after night isn’t going to get that done.

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kelvin.nguye offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 4 months, 2 weeks ago (8 months, 1 week after post)

sometimes changing your routine still doesnt make a difference and people just truly do have badluck.

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