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jakpacman
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Im really stuck,

iv started hating myself because of this girl i really like, its not her fault, its mine.
she used to love me, while i had a blind obsession about anouther, it was stupid, but now, when iv finaly relised that, i love her. she’s moved on.

were really good mates, which im fine with. but i want to tell her how amazing it would be for me to be able to hold her hand in the morning and kiss her goodbye.
i feel like this is the most valid feeling iv ever had. but its still not enough :(

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bramblejelly offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (7 minutes after post)

Try not to hate yourself.

If she’s moved on then that’s what you need to do. If you’re right for eachother then some day it will work out. You just need to let life take it’s path and look for the signs to make a move.

Until then, don’t worry about it. You’re 14, you’ve plenty of time left for finding the right girl.

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 152 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (7 minutes after post)

You had her and lost her through your own doing? Learn your lesson and move on!

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jakpacman offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
US | 1 year ago (8 minutes after post)

thats how i would feel with previouse girls, its differnt this time though

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bramblejelly offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (10 minutes after post)

ey, and so it will be time and time again. If she is the right one, you’ll be with her. If she’s not, then cry not, for feelings stronger than these ones will take over your heart one day and you will realise.

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 152 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (14 minutes after post)

Puppy love! Isn’t love great! Move on! You will have many girls later in life who will be clamoring for your affections!

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PyroBoy51 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (4 days, 23 hours after post)

if you can’t believe in yourself, what can you believe in….

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