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She cheated, is meeting other guys.

What should i do.
She cheated on my with one guy over 9 months. She gave him up, and i forgave her. Now she is meeting other guys at work. Shes texting and talking to them constantly. Haveing them come to our dorm. Is this appropriate for a relationship of over 1 and a half years? Do i have a reason to be mad? Ive told her how i feel many times, but she dosent see anything wrong with making friends with other guys.

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a_bandoned offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 30 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (3 minutes after post)

if you have expressed your feeling, she obviously doesn’t care about how you feel. she needs to understand that she must earn your trust back. she cheated once before. i would talk with her again and if she doesn’t change find someone worthy of you.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (4 minutes after post)

You have every right to be mad. I’m a woman and I also have guy friends. We have always just been friends thought..The difference is that she already cheated on you before. If she really cares about your relationship, she would listen to your feelings and do something about it.

It may be time for you to move on. Getting jealous about it, will only hurt the relationship further. If she cares, she’ll listen. If not, you are better off moving on.

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fullerj offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (10 minutes after post)

its so hard…

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fullerj offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (17 minutes after post)

LOL, that part is easy yes, what what about the pain, saddness and tears. I happen to really love this person…

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blue835 offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (20 minutes after post)

dude….are u bloody fick; shez playing u man…get a grip dude; this ain’t love…love works both ways and there is no way that i wud let ma missez txt anotha guy besides her dad or bruther…it aint right man; put ur foot down an stop being a sissy!

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a_bandoned offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 30 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (22 minutes after post)

fullerj wrote:
LOL, that part is easy yes, what what about the pain, saddness and tears. I happen to really love this person…

heartbreak makes you stronger. you are better off.

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blue835 offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (24 minutes after post)

[/quote]heartbreak makes you stronger. you are better off.[/quote]

thats dam true…heartbreak is a lesson that teaches us next time to be more wary…don’t love so easily, ur heart is like the most perfect thing u hav so dnt giv it up to any looser…take this as a lesson and dnt be in such haste to fall in love next time

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KC offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (27 minutes after post)

I know you really love her, but if she isn’t returning the love back the way you need it…it’s not going to last. You deserve her love and respect. If she isn’t giving that to you, let her go. The pain will suck terribly. But you will learn from it and find someone new who will be able to love you like you need.

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darkestchil offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (21 hours, 19 minutes after post)

making friends with other guys and cheating on your boyfriend with other guys are two completely different things..

a female and be in a relationship and still be friends with guys and make new guy friends..

if she is meeting new guys and sleeping with them.. then thats wrong

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