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How do I become less annoying?

I know I can be annoying at school, especially since people have been yelling at me to stop and shut up. I also don’t have common sense. I’ve tried everything to become less annoying, and think before I act but I can’t do it! I can talk loudly sometimes, but people sometimes crack mean jokes about me and it really gets me going! What should I do?

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (0 minutes after post)

Think more

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (2 minutes after post)

talk quieter

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brightshine offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (2 minutes after post)

Talk less, hear more, smile often.

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Lajoney offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
El Cajon, CA, US | 1 year ago (4 minutes after post)

Dont talk so much.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (8 minutes after post)

Just be yourself, if people are yelling at you then they have the problem.

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How do I become less annoying?
I know I can be annoying at school, especially since people have been yelling at me to stop and shut up. I also don’t have common sense. I’ve tried everything to become less annoying, and think before I act but I can’t do it! What should I do?

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (12 minutes after post)

When you are around your friends, listen, think, engage brain, think about what you are going to say, and then talk. Don’t talk out of turn or try to talk over somebody already talking.

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1 year ago (59 minutes after post)

haha. i tried not talking today in class. it didnt work out so well. i ended up saying something stupid and everyone laughed at me and the teacher was annoyed!

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 5 minutes after post)

Perhaps if you are around people who don’t want to hear you you should make friends with different people who are truly interested in what you have to say.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (3 hours, 26 minutes after post)

think about what you say: is it annoying to YOU, when you really hear it coming out of your mouth? is it stupid, and pointless? if it is, then… dont say it.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (2 weeks, 4 days after post)

Just be yourself. If people don’t like it then they don’t like it. Sooner or later you’ll realize its not as important to have more friends, but more important to have true ones. If people can’t accept you for you, then there not really worth it. A good friend wouldn’t want you to change.

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An Unknown Location | 10 months, 3 weeks ago (2 months after post)

let them talk instead of u all the time let them choose what you do and where you go so basically try being a tag along and u dont have to be the leader to have fun trust me =] xx good luck lol

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An Unknown Location | 8 months, 3 weeks ago (3 months, 3 weeks after post)

The age old question, how to I become less annoying. Well dont swear dont gossip be nice show people you are smart

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An Unknown Location | 8 months, 1 week ago (4 months, 1 week after post)

well i was anouying and not poular at my old school in KS but i moved to ohio and now everyone loves me!!!!!!!!!! its crazy man carzy!!!!!!!!! my advise is to just move!

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An Unknown Location | 8 months ago (4 months, 2 weeks after post)

Dude,dont worry about that…it sounds like to me you get to nervous around ppl and dont think before you say something…my addvice is to smoke a blunt before school…it will calm you down.

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An Unknown Location | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (6 months after post)

my advice is not to smoke a blunt or move but to find someone who likes you for you. im in the exact situation right now, im annoying, talk wayy too much and dont know where the line for too far is. but iv found recently that moving realtionships around, like changing friends can help alot. well atleast it helped for me! there will always be some who doens like you for you, but you are the way you are for a reason and someday, even if its not today someones going to like that one thing about you! GOOD LUCK!!! :)

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An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (7 months after post)

wow you guys ive tried all your advice and it worked and the annoynomys person hopefuly worked for you too

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An Unknown Location | 4 months, 1 week ago (8 months, 2 weeks after post)

well i am also in the exact position, i talk2 much & i sometimes dont let the subject go wich realy gets pple mad at me but always try 2 keep this in mind, u have 2 ears 1 mouth listen more and talk less. But also every1 is right, if its the way u are then u shouldnt have to change, just be u and change 4 noone cause theres some1 out thaere that will always like u for u weather its ur parents or someone else

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (8 months, 3 weeks after post)

i am really annoying and i cant stop it

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An Unknown Location | 1 week ago (1 year after post)

je kanker moeder

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