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My friend is mad depressive…

We’ve known each other for 15 years now, 10 of wich she’s been having emotional problems , and she is finally geting help, wich is great ofcourse.But.. Over the years she seems to have changed in this uninterrested, not so cool very negative person that expects to be emotionally pamperd and than rejects and is being incooprative.And im very supportive of her finally gettinng serious about her issues and getting out of bed and eating beakfast and all, but when i share a story or event , reply is nihil to none…And this is my problem how do you stay friends with somebody you really love but who is just eating away your energy?do you break with them?or should you be there forever and ever, and just take all this projection…..i’m kinda at a loss.

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miauwmiauwmiau offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (11 minutes after post)

This is so true..and i try to keep perspective but it’s just sooo tiresome…

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (12 minutes after post)

Hey, my best friend is very similar, don’t give up on her but also don’t forget your own life too…it’s easy to get wrapped up in their problems and live only to keep them happy but you need to live for yourself too, because at times they may push you away and you’ll need something else…don’t give up though because a true friend is worth working to keep… keep strong

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software offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
IN | 1 year ago (16 minutes after post)

usually uneven periods make this kind of problem,or you are not giving her 100%,

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miauwmiauwmiau offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (30 minutes after post)

what do you mean software?

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software offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
IN | 1 year ago (36 minutes after post)

ok have a nice time.

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chunkymove offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (52 minutes after post)

sounds lihe needs a wake up call.

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chunkymove offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (54 minutes after post)

if she gets attention from being a whiny, she’ll keep doing it, your the enabler. If she’s got something real bad, of course you want to help, but start moving towards giving her more attention when shes being positive.

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