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Hi all that have clicked to open :) I really dont know

where to start as my life is a mess at the moment,well has been,up and down,since i left school. Several bad things have happened but hey,life is like that and everyone suffers. Im just finding it hard to focus on a direction as i was so pressured to do things by my father and even though his means were good his method wasnt,i think he didnt have the greatest relationship with his father but i will never know as our family is so broken and bitchy its unreal. I think a hell of a lot and maybe think thats me losing my mind a bit as i am a serial worrier and i really dont know how to chill. I dont have panic attacks or anything like that,its all just an over-active mind and its starting to affect my relationship,as i read into things a lot,some of the time im right,but im making myself very stressed. I want to have a great life and a good career but i need things to start going my way,although i know that life NEVER falls into your hands.
I dont know how anyone can help as my aims are vague but i can embellish if required,thats if im heard Thankyou for reading this x

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sounds to me as tough you are putting too much pressure on yourself, just as you say your father did. you need to have a different approach with you! be kind to yourself, praise yourself do the things you can and try not to worry about the things you cant. give your mind a rest once in a while. if you expect things not to go your way they usually dont, start thinking positive and see the effect it has.

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