Love help: i love larhen but he’s does drugs and he sell it too but - Help.com

Let him go, you can’t change him no matter what you think. Walk out of his life for good, if he stops then great, if he doesn’t then forget him. No one deserves to be with a person like that. He has to want to change.

when you love someone, you love them for who they are, that doesnt mean that you should change them to suit you best because thats not right. if he has problems with the drugs and he needs help, help him to help himself, book him into some classes, but you have to make sure that you stick with him through it all, because thats what love really is…

daniellemusel wrote:
Let him go, you can’t change him no matter what you think. Walk out of his life for good, if he stops then great, if he doesn’t then forget him. No one deserves to be with a person like that. He has to want to change.

everyone deserves love danielle, even drug addicts, they go through a lot of depression because thats what drugs do to you but it gives you a moment of happiness which is why they are taken, most peeople start drugs for a good reason, maybe theyre depressed or lonely or just after some excitement…

Most people don’t start drugs for a good reason, they do it to be like their friends. It would be one thing if he just did drugs but he’s a dealer too. If she means that much to him then he’ll change on his own. You can’t change people, they have to change because they want to. My boyfriend had been on drugs until he moved here with me. I asked him to come here with one condition, no drugs. He hasn’t touched any since. He changed because he realized what was important to him and what was best for HIM. Drugs made him happy, but so did I. How do you tell someone not to be the way they are… you can’t. I gave him an ultimatum and he made the decision on his own.

I never said there were a certain kind of people who don’t deserve love but why should she stay with this person if she’s asked him to change and he hasn’t? She shouldn’t stay because he’s not going to change until he wants to. No one deserves to feel so miserable because the one they love can’t give up something of material to be with them. I guess you have to be in the situation to know. I hope you never have to.