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Take.Ur.Time
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confidence issue

I’m 18, 5ft, im petite, and people tell me all the time how cute I am. But for some reason, I just cant believe them. I get in these moods where I’m just soo down on myself and I feel like nothing looks right on me. I’m not depressed, bi polar or nething like that! I just get these ways and I hate it cuz I have no confidence at all. I feel like I dont look good enough for ne one, and that I cant wear nething cute cuz it makes me look fat or I’m too short to wear it.

I see some really big girls (no offense) wear really cute clothes, and I’m like, how do those girls carry themselves sooo well even though their big? I’m not big, I just sometimes see myself as big.

I dont know! Maybe I’m crazy!

I’m just wondering if their’s anyone that could give me some tips on how to help this whole thing.

thanks =)

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mdunphy offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (1 day, 8 hours after post)

Welcome to life, where everything else seems better when you’re not involved. It’s tough to look like the person you want to feel like. Either way, you are beautiful no matter what you think - besides you are your worst critic. I’m 5′ as well, and honestly there are just days where nothing seems to look any good, but those are the days where a t-shirt and jeans are perfect. If clothes are the problem, just dress how you feel. Perhaps there is a color you like to wear, or a certain cut of clothing?

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Soldier 4 you offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 day, 23 hours after post)

im 6′1 and i feel like a monster sometimes. Who cares dude! You know d*mn well your beautiful, dont get stressed out over if you think you look big or not. In fact ive heard that most guys (including myself) prefer more meat on girls, and not that yucky skinny model type. Hope i helped =)

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (3 days, 1 hour after post)

Aww thank you mister tony :)

I haven’t talked to u in forever! L0l

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Soldier 4 you offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (3 days, 1 hour after post)

Its been a week, lol…miss me already huh? lol

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