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go find someone at school?
try the mall or where people your age hang out? and like bump into someone you think is cute and start a convosation

oh…hm….try..the internet? no wait thats a bad idea….hmm, hang out at alot of place, someones bound to caught your eye eventually?

Sometimes the best time to find one is to not look at all. Spend some quality you time maybe in that someone will pop up out of no where…like running into someone(literally running into them haha), in a line at starbucks, friends house. Just be leary of those creapy weirdo’s lerking around being creapy and weird!

If you think you need a boyfriend so your life gets more interesting, that makes me wonder how come some people get so alienated from themselves and from really important things in their life, that they start to think “If I had that, I wont get bored. If I had that, I would be more happy”. At times, there are indeed changes that we should make, which are serious and justifiable. But most of the time, I see it clearly, people think OTHER things, OTHER people would make a difference in their life (exterior attributions).

The truth is, that pair of shoes wont bring your great self esteem back.
Maybe one more boyfriend wont make it better for you.

At this point other people go through serious situations and they get more profound answers to “why is my life so…?”.

Best wishes.

Looking for someone to be with, it sounds like that’s the type of person that you find at a super market or some other public place. Most of the time, the people that we become close to are the ones that we get into a arguement or some type of dissagreement at first, but later become close.

DO you realsise how many people are loney and hoping they will find some on ewho will match them perfectly…
Loads and yes! it is always difficult finding the right match, but the only way is to meet people and as you say the good ones are already taken…
Fuinny thing is guys have the same perspective too on that :)
Rather thna trying to meet people at the mall or around college, I would suggest getting involved in activities that you like…
Hows chess coming along? Im sure apart from the fanatics there must be some mature and sensible people there… Though I would actually suggest an activity that you are more passionate about, thing is even though you meet some one mature and to your liking unless you are passionate about similar things, the long run is a problem…
For that I always enjoyed art groups, dance, heritage clubs and social work groups…
Even here you might find someone with passions like yours…
All the best!