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Last Saturday I went with some new friends out to the movies and swimming pools. Robyn, Jess and Sarah, We had a good time. Jess and I have been talking to each other for a while now, and just last night she wanted to brake up with her boyfriend to be with me. She said she felt nothing for him except fear of how he will take the brake up. To be honest I have feelings for her, when we first met, I didn’t think I’d have a chance with her, guess I was wrong. She also wants to get to know one another better before we can fully call it a relationship. 1 problem is is that she lives around 1 hour away…

I have no idea what to to…

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 123 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (2 minutes after post)

Do you think the relationship is worth the time and effort that you are going to have to put into it?

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forgivenbychris offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (4 minutes after post)

Take the chance mate, there is no point living with the ‘’what if'’. Life is to short if it doesen’t work out then atleast you tried.

Takecare buddy and goodluck.

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Gilgamesh offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (4 minutes after post)

I don’t really have the time, but I have the effort. I do love her, I just don’t know how things will work out.

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 123 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (14 minutes after post)

Gilgamesh wrote:
I don’t really have the time, but I have the effort. I do love her, I just don’t know how things will work out.

then invest in the relationship. If it’s worth it to you and you think it will make you happy in the long run, go for it!

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Daksha Cromwell offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (16 minutes after post)

time should mean nothing if you love her. i say go for it and good luck.

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