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I just wanted to thank you all for the support you have given me.

I sought professional help and I am getting moved out of home away from this monster that has become my reality. i am not so sure how i feel about this as of yet. Maybe relief… maybe depseration.. maybe sadness.. definately terror…

was recomnended that i should give you thi supdate by soemone who has been very suportive.

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southern_comfort offline Verified User (3 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (2 minutes after post)

Hi Opal. That is great news. So glad you were willing to open up to someone. This will be scary at first but follow their rules and you will be fine.

For those that wish to review. Here is the link to Opal’s old post: http://help.com/post/206588-aaaaaaaaa…

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opal offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (4 minutes after post)

I have been in a place like the one i am going to before and left after 3 days…

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mumstheword offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 16 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (5 minutes after post)

That’s good to hear.

I admire your courage and bravery. Well done.

You will be fine.

It will be a rocky road maybe, but it’s a good road and will lead you to good places.

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Bogdan (Gone) offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (7 minutes after post)

Good to hear, seems things are picking up for you. :D

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opal offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (7 minutes after post)

i am scared he will come here

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southern_comfort offline Verified User (3 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (8 minutes after post)

When was the previous time, Opal? Why did you leave after 3 days? Did you not feel safe anymore?

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opal offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (10 minutes after post)

maybe about 8 months ago… they werent going to lay any charges and yeah i felt like he would come and find me so i left

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southern_comfort offline Verified User (3 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (11 minutes after post)

Others are still praying for you. Around the world; 24/7. God is working a miracle here but you need to still be patient. Okay?

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angel♥ offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 36 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (11 minutes after post)

YAY! im so happy for you opal. thats great news! i hope everything goes well.
im proud of you for talking to someone. that takes a lot. good job =)
xoxoxo im here if you ever need to talk!

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mumstheword offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 16 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (11 minutes after post)

Don’t be scared Opal.

Whenever you feel afraid, talk to someone there. They will protect you.

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Winter Rose offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (12 minutes after post)

Very good for you Opal, good luck.

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opal offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (16 minutes after post)

thanks guys you have really made a world of difference to me

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opal offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (20 minutes after post)

i think my biggest fear is that i will change my mind regret what i have said and want to go back to daddy

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Bogdan (Gone) offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (21 minutes after post)

If you think that may happen, come here and tell us about it. Don’t go back to the bad situation.

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southern_comfort offline Verified User (3 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (22 minutes after post)

For those that did not know… The MONSTER Opal is referring to was her biological father. He is a severe alcoholic. Often when he would return home drunk he would bring with him his buddies from the bar. Opal is home all alone. On several occasions they have taken advantage of her sexually. She would be bruised and sore for days and wouldn’t be able to sleep for days at a time. She rarely attends school because of this and is failing in all of her classes. She was finally able to find one sympathetic ear that would listen to her story. This is just the beginning to what I hope is a very happy ending to a very ugly story.

If you would be so kind, please continue to pray for Opal as she continues on this quest. She really could use all our prayers. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. -Martin K.

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mumstheword offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 16 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (27 minutes after post)

You can be strong.

You will find someone special in your life who will mean the world to you and will be there for you… and thoughts of returning home will not occur to you, because you will have found the love that is missing from your life.

Remember that you are loved. Strangers here love you. Someone out there will love you more than you could possibly imagine ..

It is only because you seek to be loved that you feel you might end up returning.

Now that you know you are, you don’t need to. x

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opal offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (29 minutes after post)

i dont need to be loved.. i just want to be at peace

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southern_comfort offline Verified User (3 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (30 minutes after post)

You are loved anyway, Opal. By me at least. *Big hug*

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opal offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (33 minutes after post)

*hugs*

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opal offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (34 minutes after post)

thank you for all the patience and support you have shown me on this site…. if i feel like he world is oing to crumble and i am going to make a mistake will speak to someone here first!!

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mumstheword offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 16 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (37 minutes after post)

And peace you shall have…

There’s always someone here waiting if you need us. x

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southern_comfort offline Verified User (3 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (39 minutes after post)

I couldn’t ask for anything more. You have learned to trust others beside yourself. I’m so happy for you. I hope we can meet face to face sometime. I want to give you that hug in person.

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opal offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (41 minutes after post)

i am noy so sure that i trust people but i couldnt go through another rough night…

i hope so about peace that is…. i want real peace not the type of peace that is absolute which has been so high on my list of late

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southern_comfort offline Verified User (3 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (48 minutes after post)

Put your trust in those that want to help you. Not hurt you. Start there.

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